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Confessions of a Kinky Kitten

Word Porn is my religion; I’ll be sharing many of my fantasies and sexy excerpts from some of my short stories. Along with any kinky musings that tickle my fancy.

Writing is how I process and communicate; so everything I share will give a little glimpse into who I am, what I desire, and what I fear.
1 month ago. October 5, 2024 at 5:20 AM

“I don’t know..”

“Is it that sometimes the pain inside has to come to the surface, and when you see evidence of the pain inside You finally know you were really here?.. Then when you watch the wound heal it’s comforting.. isn’t it?”

“I… Th-that’s a way to put it.”

- Secretary -

This is one of my favorite movies, and this scene kinda devoured me. I can’t even tell you how many times I replayed it. But that first time was the most impactful..

It made me cry,  made me fall a tiny bit in love with James Spader, and made me a whole lotta in love with that subtle kind of Dominance he exuded.

She felt seen, he made it clear he was trying to understand her so that she’d know that cutting herself was something that would no longer serve her. And he convinced her of it. He convinced her with his words, with his voice, and with his eyes. With his presence.

“No, Sir!” Never sounded so beautiful as it came out of Maggie’s mouth..

TigerBDSM​(dom male){looking} - Cutting is NEVER a cure.
Substituting the lifestyle instead of cutting is just masking your issues and transferring to another form.
The lifestyle can be helpful OR NOT.
NEVER allow someone who "plays dom" to attempt to be your medical professional.
He will have fun at your expense, even if he "thinks" he is doing things for your own good.
The lifestyle has many facets, NONE of them help issues that require professional help. It's escapism at best, or the beginning of you ultimate demise.
Be safe and be careful.
Off soapbox box now.
1 month ago
amalthea​(sub female){Mr Gregory}Verified member - I loved that scene and understand completely. Yes, I agree with TigerBDSM above that you should not substitute and you should always involve mental health providers. Finding sex therapists and kink friendly providers can be tricky. Understanding the why behind the behavior is incredibly important and understanding the power exchange. In secretary, she needed a release for her emotional discomfort and pain. She did not know how to put it into words, therefore talk therapy isn't always beneficial. Spanking has been studied as a means of therapy for awhile, it hasn't gained a lot of popularity because it is controversial and because many only link it to abuse or sex. As always, communication and understanding are the keys.
1 month ago

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