Bdsm, Slave Training, Mind Control, and The 24/7 Life

Mind Control and Training

OK in the previous edition: Hypnosis and training, I talked about various training methods and ways to focus a slaves mind, In this edition I am going to focus on unlocking the slaves mind and using this to help you program them, Note: you can't program some one to be something that they don't desire to be, the mind dose not work this way, and if you tried you can cause all sorts of neurosis and mental conditions, so unless you want your slave to become a crazy sub, you should stick with using what is already there.
Now once you have gained the ability to get them into trance you can use the trust you established to ask questions.
Examples: Like what turns you on the most, how do you feel about being dominated, what do you like about anal sex, this sort of thing.
After you have your answers about theses things, sort them into positive ones, and negative ones.
Starting with the positive ones:
Induce the trance state and deepen it, introduce pleasant feelings and create a place of contentment and safety.
Slowly turn the feelings into a sexual ones, when she is thoroughly aroused, bring up the sexual things she liked and create associations with these experiences and the ones you want to add.
Example: (this is assuming she dose not hate bondage) she likes anal sex but you want her to like it in bondage and you want her to like it more.
to do this you bring her into the situation in her mind making her feel the bondage get her to strain against the bonds, make her smell the leather or rope, have her become aroused by the bondage make her feel her safe place and that she is safe and aroused in that place that she is in bondage and it feels good, reinforce theses feelings, do this until she has reached a state of high arousal, than talk about how her ass is feeling horny, that she is thinking about how nice it would feel to have her ass played with, and how it would feel nice to have something to put in there.
You can add whatever words you want, but build on the feelings of each element you intend to use.
Get her to tell you what it feels like, how she feels than have her participate in the dialogue, this will reinforce her mental connection with the experience you have induced.
When you feel she is experiencing what you have described and you have brought her arousal level high enough, Tell her once again to experience the feeling of her bondage, to feel her ass being played with, make her desire to have it fucked, and to be used anally.
Focus the sexual feelings on the experiences be detailed, draw her mind into the experience.
Use this time to reinforce the feelings and the pleasure she is having from this, tell her that this is what it feels like to be bound and used anally and that she will experience this ever time she is used this way. Have her repeat this over and over for 10 or more repetitions, draw her deeper in to the feeling and create an association with the experience, use a trigger word to set this as an event to occur when you speak the word.
You can use this type of association with any positive experience you discover. this is the type of behavior you want to build on. these are the type of connections that are the simplest to build new thoughts and behaviors from, in the above scenario you would have a slave that wants her ass fucked most when she is bound.
For things she is frightened of but not totally against, than you can use the positive sexual response method and begin to create a positive reinforcement this can build the level of willingness to try and experiment with new sexual areas. Someone mentioned that they wanted to make the perfect slave using hypnosis, well though it is true that you can get amazing results from training a slave with this method, be realistic how would you accomplish this, Well one way would be to find similarities in there existing memories, thoughts and beliefs, to the desired programming you want to give them. the more similarities you can find the closer you can get to the perfect slave. This is all about subtlety the brain can be tricked into beveling something that is close to a truth they believe, a desire to please, the need to have approval current beliefes, there sense of honer, or doing the right thing, the closer you get to there core feelings and social programming the easier to modify the behavior.
I will once again say that if you don't have a good understanding of human behavior and some training in hypnosis, or psychology you should not try doing this on a slave, the minds is a complex thing and with out the proper knowledge you can mess someone up bad.
So unless you are willing to take the responsibility for your actions and the results of messing with someones mind, than I suggest you get some knowledge, in psychology and human behavior, BDSM and life. Knowledge is power, go get some you'll thank your self in the end.

Shadowlord

Hypnosis and Training

I will discus training and the use of hypnosis, I am going to start talking about the use of this in training and how to tell if the slave is receptive to such things. For the moment I wanted to get this started. while it is common knowledge that a large percentage if the population is receptive to hypnotic suggestions not all are, about 10% are extremely suggestible. While it is true that a person can't be hypnotized if the don't want to be, with a slave/sub its actually not as hard and lucky for Masters/Doms most sub/slaves are receptive.
The best subjects are the ones who naturally want to follow orders and are easily distracted, day dreamers, fantasizes, people that space off and forget what they are doing are far more open to this type of training. You can capture there attention and draw them into a trance easily.
The next question is the moral ground just how far do you go with such a powerful tool, well I feel that you should consult you slave. Talk to them ahead of time and ask just how far they are willing to let you go, of course most slaves will let you take it as far as you want, remember that the mind is a fragile thing and it is not hard to cause irreparable harm.
In a trance state the slave/sub will be more likely to tell you what they truly feel and want.
After you reach this point you can decide how far you should go, the more willing the slave/sub the easier to program them. I am not going to go into how to induce a trance state or the finer points of the craft of hypnosis, what I am going to do is talk about some of the do's and don'ts of programming, as with any training consistency is essential. The less conflict you create with your post hypnotic suggestions the better they will take, another good rule is not to suggest something that will cause distress, don't make the slave/sub like watching horror if its something she is horrified by, this will create stresses on a subconscious level and cause deep mental issues, I don't recommend any one who has not studied some psychology and mental health to attempt this. The mind is a complex thing and should be handled delicately, you're not just giving them a new set of thoughts you could be damaging the ways in which they deal with life, so it's best to understand the slave/sub well before attempting to alter a persons mind.
Because this is a complex subject and I don't condone the use of such techniques by the untrained, I will only focus on ways to program not hypnotize.
One of the best methods I have learned is to use physical training in conjunction with the posthypnotic suggestions you create, this will reinforce the training and the programming. Action helps stimulate the neurotransmitters to create memories that reinforce the suggestions. I also recommend that you use only a few at a time to avoid to many conflicts, you can always add more at a later date when the previous programming has taken hold.
another method is to use parallel thoughts and beliefs. this is a particularly effective way to program someone because it aligns the new program with existing similar thoughts and beliefs, it makes the mind more able to processes and integrate into a new pathway. An alternate method is to use logic associations. Example of this would be, you say yellow is such a warm color, they agree, you say fire is yellow, they agree, than you say fire is hot and they agree, so if fire is yellow and fire is hot than yellow must be hot. Than you keep this going tell they agree, this creates the association of yellow being hot.
It is important to understand that what you are doing is creating new pathways for the neurotransmitters in the brain to start writing the programming, and making it real. The more methods of reinforcement you use to solidify these new thoughts the more the slave/sub accepts them as reality.
Understand that these methods are not a wand that will magically fix a sub/slave of all there behavioral issues, however it will definitely change a lot of behavior and the way they experience there submission, depending on how well you create a program and your intention for training them.
I have crafted a training method suited to my particular taste, and I believe that once trained with this method I will have a slave who is multi talented, with all the enthusiastic energy and confidence of a happy slave, ready to face anything for her master.
If you wanted to deal with there deep behavioral issues you would have to identify and resolve each of them. I recommend that you endeavor to do this as it will help in there training and make them more open to new behaviors and habits.
I will discus the topic of behavioral issues and how to resolve them in another post.

Shadowlord

Foundations:

I have given a lot of thought to foundations, something I think relates to every aspect of this lifestyle.
What is a foundation well in building it is the bases upon which you will build you structure, if it is week it will fail, if it is not square it will be harder to finish, if you leave cretin parts tell later it will be more difficult to add in what you need later.
So how dose this apply to people and relationship, in truth it's not much different. In building you have to survey the land, build a solid bed for the basic foundation to be built on and make sure that you address such things as drainage, exposure to weather, access to to and from the building and so on.
In a relationship it is not much different, you have to build a solid bed which is based on truth and communication, set a goal for both sides, do you share any interest, building a relationship on truth, goes a long way to a solid base, in BDSM there should be a set of rules for your slave, and you should have a set also,( for me some of my rules are never strike out of anger you can be mad just be in control). You can't say one thing and do another expecting your slave to respect you.
Be genuine and forthcoming.
If a masters word is law to a slave than it's law to the master.
After you determine what your common ground is, than you should begin to build on what expectations you have.
A slave should let you know what it is that she really desires from this type of lifestyle, maybe she just want someone the tell her what to do, and to be punished when she fails to do that.
Maybe she wants to be controlled and treated like a pet, or a sub human, and she wants no input into what happens to her.
I will say that you should establish some ground rules with a pet type, fully listen to what she says she wants, even a pet has limits.
Maybe this is all new and she dose not have any idea what she wants, and some exploration is in order.
No mater what the situations may be there is always a core from where a slaves needs stem from, it is up to the Dom/Master to sort through the information and figure out what that is.
I can tell you from personal experience that it can be a processes.
My best advice on this is to listen and re-ask the questions you used to find out about her in the first place.
Have her restate what she thinks she is getting, and what she thinks she wants, there are subtle things that will remain consistent in her words and this will help you figure out what her needs are.
There is of course those who say my master should decide for me, I say no, that is a bad idea, nothing good comes from not communicating.
Lets review
Communication. Talk about your kinks your desires, and listen to her's, make sure you understand them. You can do this by re -stating them to her.
Expectations: Set the tone lay out your expectations, listen to what she says, listen to her expectations if they don't fit than it won't work
Honesty: Be honest, tell her what you want, make sure she wants the same
Trust: Let her know what your doing and why even if it is to please you because you enjoy it. you will earn her trust by being upfront.
Boundaries and limits: Establish boundaries, discus limits, both yours and her's, everyone has them, whether they know them or not.
Rules and Consequences: Let her know the rules and that there will be consequences for breaking them,
Punishments and rewards: Punishment should be just that, not for pleasure, there is a difference between setting her up for fun and true punishment, rewards
should be given for good behavior this reinforces the desire to be good and to obey.
Mental health and physical health: It is important to use all the tools you have to learned, her mental state, emotional state, and her physical state . you don't want to breake her spirit a broken slave is a tragedy and can be avoided, there is braking a horse and braking it's spirit, know the difference
Limits: L added this because it is a different kind of limit. it is your own limit and that of the slave you own, know your limits and respect her's you can always push her limits just don't shatter them.
This lifestyle is not so much about attraction and chemistry like a vanilla relationship is, it is more about the psych, the emotional and physical needs we have.
For each it is different, but this is one of the few areas we have to express or experience those aspects of our self.
For some it is a cleansing of the soul, an experience that keeps us in balance. For others it is a release of our self getting lost to the moment and feeling who we are without the confines of society and self imposed restrictions.
This is a power exchange, but clearly each side of the exchange is a give and take. When you understand what to take and when, you will get more from your slave and she will get more from you, remember she needs to be controlled, so it helps knowing what feeds her needs.
The more you understand a slave's motives and desires the more you open her mind up to your will, this will create a more stable connection and increase the bond you have with her.

Shadowlord