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Bdsm, Slave Training, Mind Control, and The 24/7 Life

The purpose of this blog is about Slave Training, Mind Control, and living the life 24/7 It is focused on training methods, building trust, finding out what makes you slave/sub tick and how to use that to train them, it also focuses on hypnosis and creating triggers to cause spicific reactions and develop permanent behaviors. Ways of handling the the day to day of normal life. Rules, and a plan for your training, building a guide for what you want your slave to become, contracts, limits, and expectations. Unless you have unlimited time and resources living the lifestyle in a total 24/7 way can be complicated. The idea is to create an evolving frame work that can adapt to the changes in life and still keep the relationship strong, and healthy.
6 years ago. March 3, 2018 at 11:42 PM

The reality of living a 24/7 Master/slave lifestyle.

This is a complex type relationship in which the fantasy is really cool but the reality it is much harder to achieve. I have lived this lifestyle before for several years, and found that there are somethings that work and some that just don’t work. Having given a great deal of thought to this subject, (mostly because I want to have the 24/7 Lifestyle again.) I have determined what I think is a way to make such a relationship work and thrive. I am going to outline what I think would be a good structure to create the workable 24/7 Master/slave relationship.
I am going to break this down into several parts making it's easier to organize.
Although I know many of you Master/Doms have seen or thought of these things before, I will include things that seem basic and a given for this type of relationship, so as to be through and cover the bases. I hope that this will offer some new insight and ideas to those who are just beginning and maybe help some of the slave/subs figure out what they are looking for.
The Master Responsibility’s:
It is important that the Master in the relationship set a structure for the relationship, a set of rules, and guidelines that his slave should follow. Keep in mind that this should be somewhat flexible because life is unpredictable, to rigid of a structure can lead to somethings not being possible or a situation that your slave can't resolve. So keep it flexible and be willing to adjust to your changing circumstance.
Type of rules:

There should be a set of rules that apply to you home life, one for public, and one for when your slave is on her own, weather she is working a job or spending time away, and a set for special circumstances where braking the rules means protecting something or preventing something, common sense should play a part here. Remember that a slave is a person and needs to have time to be herself and express her desires, you cannot keep her confined and isolated from life with out causing her great psychological harm, and in the end she can become broken mentally. Like a pet she must be exercised and stimulated not just sexually but mentally, emotionally, and physically. A slave needs to have things to do and take part in, a healthy slave will be a happy slave, and her submission will be all the more sweeter.
People are complex and require stimulation and opportunity’s to grow and expand their mind, body, and soul. Many slaves and subs crave the structure, discipline, and consequences that the lifestyle brings. For a slave knowing that she doesn't have to guess what you want, or try being a mind reader, she knows exactly what she is required to do and what will happen if she fails. This gives her the ability to just relax and focus. In normal vanilla relationships we spend the time to get to know someone and try and figure out how to please them, we try to read their body language and mood. For a slave, (though she will do this, it's natural for a female to read body language and give off strong body language.) she doesn't have to think about it, which can bring a great sense of freedom.
Communication is key to her health, she needs to be allowed to voice her feeling and thoughts, a journal could be used for this there should be a free talk time, maybe daily or once a week, this should be a time where she is allowed to speak her mind and not be afraid of the consequences. This is after all a relationship there are 2 people involved here so it is important that both have a say and input into their relationship. Sometimes you may have to draw out what she is feeling and make it a point to discover the root of her feelings. This is also a time which the Master must not hold what she expresses against her; it is all about trust, truth, and communication. Without these elements the relationship will collapse and both parties will be hurt, maybe even become damaged emotionally or mentally.
The biggest issue such a relationship will face is normal life, it is hard to maintain a total Master/slave relationship because we are people we live in a complex world and have complex needs and desires, for this reason it would be healthy for your slave to have some normal hobbies or interest, and she should be encouraged to explore and pursue them, give her an outlet to express herself and time to process the life she lives as a slave. Sometimes the simple things are the best.


Just some thoughts on living the lifestyle.


Shadowlord


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