A Masters Needs
We talk a lot about the slave/submissive her needs and desires, what drives them what they crave, learning what we can from them so we can draw from them there desires.
But what about the Masters needs, what drives this person to put all this time and effort into his slave, to learn about what makes her tic, her quirks, what she truly wants, the things that make her hot or cold, what her limitations are, what her limits are, what here kinks are. A good Master would try to understand her personality, try to discover her deeper motivations, just what buttons to push to give her the most intense experience he can, he would discover her desires and dreams. He would learn her skills and talents, he would build a set of rules that would reflect his desires and her needs. He would spend the time to organize her life and control her destiny. He would have her build this with him, get her involved making her a part of her own submission. What drive a Master to put all his effort into this? What dose he get from this? What are his needs? When you think about it he spends a great deal of time focused on this. I make lists find out about her and who she, from her past to her present, never know when you might find a fantasy or trigger you would never have found if you didn't look. I try to build a picture of my slave, I want to truly understand her, for me I am looking to win her mind before I dominate it. So than why don't people do this in the normal world with there relationships? Simple answer too much work. So what makes the Master different? What drives him? Power, he has a hunger to to control, to dominate and enslave his slave. He has a vested interest in learning all these things, to know her better than she dose. To bend her to his will and make her what he desires, to pull from her the greatest pleasure he can and make her soul fly, (atleast for me) I want to feed her need, make her desperate like a starving animal, hungry for more, to get her to need my control so bad that she will beg for more and I can see it written on her face, it's lilke a widow to her soul. To see the rapture on her face from what I have done is a high like no other, there is satisfaction in knowing I did that, that I have the power to bring this out in her it's like a drug. I manipulate her, torment her, bind her to my will and make her happy she has been bound, I would wish it no other way. If we are smart we use all her own desires and dreams to do it, we make her a part of the enslavement, and she flourishes under our control, she becomes the best we can make her and still she is bound to us and wants nothing less. We drink in her suffering at our command, relish humiliating her, forcing her to accept and cherish her place, beneath us, kneeling at our feet waiting at our whim, and it's at our whim we take what ever we desire. The slave gives us such power, and in the power they give us, we revel, we become drunk on that power and, it fulfills in us the need to possess an other, bending them to our will. We each have our own kinks that drives us, but there is a thread that all Master and Doms share it's the craving of control, the power over another, we spend our time thinking up scenes we want to try, and looking for reactions we hope to get, or know we will get. setting up a slave to be punished can be a lot of fun especially when they are surprised and it's just what they crave. Why is that? Because we want to control them and let them know we can. We get off unknowing that we can read them like a book and make them in awe of that power. And what it dose to a slave well, it makes them feel there place even more, and that makes them feel better and desire to serve more. Such a wonderful cycle it is, as we explore the mind of an other. As Masters we may not realize this but we are artist, our canvass is our slave, the brushes we paint with are the rules, the implements of torture, and punishment. We use bondage, torture, weather psychological, or physical, mild or extreme, whatever limits they have given us to work within. But this canvass is much better than the kind you frame, because this painting changes, it evolves, and so do the brushes you get to try, you can add new colors to you artistry, bring out new and exciting things, a slave can walk a long road, so long as the Master takes care of her. The best slave is a happy and healthy slave, they will give you everything, even more than you could ever have imagined. No greater treasure will a Master ever own. Yet with all the power we must be ever diligent, we must keep our own monsters at bay, we must always be the observer watching the slave, we cannot allow our self to brake her, we can brake her in but don't brake her spirit, all that is special could die and such a loss that would be. So we live on the edge of our desire to control and dominate to push and torment, to play games with her and keep her on the edge, all this must be kept within the limits of our slave. That's why we spent so much time to learn, plan, study, and teach, so that we could have unlimited access to the power she gave us, the thing we need. but even a Master has doubt, sometimes he needs to know that his treasure is happy with all he dose, that he has given her what she craves, we can become guilt ridden because we think we have damaged her and feel remorse, no one wants to ruin there favorite toy, something that is irreplaceable.
So what are a Masters needs? In the broadest sense control, power, domination, the need to feed the beast, and even to be reassured that we are OK for being such beasts. Each Master, Dom, Domme, or Dominant, has their kinks the things that get them going, but I think we all share this. I could be wrong, but the very titles we take on kinda says it all.
Shadowlord
