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Questions and no answers

1 week ago. March 25, 2025 at 1:33 AM

Leaves us all with a million questions but no answers. Some of us like to learn from our interactions with others to better ourselves. Maybe I can learn something I don’t know that is how we grow. You may prefer to avoid confrontation but you have to learn to have the hard conversations for healthy relationships. You have to be able to communicate the good, the bad and the ugly even when it’s scary as hell. 
I am not perfect at this but I’m a work in progress, try to learn from my good and bad experiences and how to better handle things in the future. 

Honest transparent communication should be the foundation of any new relationship regardless of if it’s romantic, sexual, or platonic. 

DomOfDesire​(dom male) - I have always found being ghosted an upsetting and frustrating experience, especially if there has been apparently positive communication.
1 week ago
SweetHolly - Me too. At least have the balls to say I’m out instead of leaving the person guessing. Then I know not to hope for anything.
1 week ago
Spanks hard​(dom male) - I have been ghosted more times than I can count frankly that gets on my nerves
1 week ago
Sir Don​(dom male) - In ny opinion the person that ghost someone is probably not ready to take anything serious. They lack the maturity to be honest with themselves let alone with someone they are/were communicating with.
In the end they are doing you a favor so you are not investing to much of yourself in to someone that is not worth it
1 week ago
SweetHolly - So very true!
1 week ago
SoftSoul​(masochist female) - When its ghost on and off but sometimes the same person comes back they miss you so they miss what they. They have to be willing to grow and take responsibility. You have to stop feeding the source and let them heal.

Sometimes people - you have to ghost someone who's not treating you right - you tried but they keep pushing you away - all you can do give peace to both. If you brought up your feelings they did not care. or no checks in no effect. They only come around when they want you for something. They may have gone through things but it is up to them to heal if they are not ready for the love and having to show up then why bother. You don't want to endanger ether both some still healing.
1 week ago
SweetHolly - Very true. But as you point out there is a difference between ghosting and protecting yourself from someone who refuses to listen. Boundaries are extremely important to have and enforce.
1 week ago

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