If it’s how I feel don’t try to change it. You may want it to be different and I may want it to be different but at the end of the day call what it is.
A good example, a hot dog, frank or wiener at the end of the day they are all the same. You may dress them differently but still the same.
If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck it’s a damn duck whether you like it or not.
If you are actively keeping me hidden then I’m a secret. If I’m a secret and you’re ‘separated’ then I’m the other woman even if you don’t call it that.
It’s how I feel, no amount of time or explanation is going to change that. I am worth more than being the ‘other woman’ or your ‘dirty little secret’ and I will not allow you to make me feel that way. I will not accept scraps anymore. I have learned my value and I am worth so much more, the difference is I’m strong enough to ‘demand’ it.
If you really cared and wanted the best for me then why would you lie about any of it? Most of all why would you try to manipulate me into not feeling the way I do because you see it differently?
Just more questions without answers….
