Questions and no answers

If it’s how I feel don’t try to change it. You may want it to be different and I may want it to be different but at the end of the day call what it is. 

A good example, a hot dog, frank or wiener at the end of the day they are all the same. You may dress them differently but still the same. 

If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck it’s a damn duck whether you like it or not. 

If you are actively keeping me hidden then I’m a secret. If I’m a secret and you’re ‘separated’ then I’m the other woman even if you don’t call it that. 

It’s how I feel, no amount of time or explanation is going to change that. I am worth more than being the ‘other woman’ or your ‘dirty little secret’ and I will not allow you to make me feel that way. I will not accept scraps anymore. I have learned my value and I am worth so much more, the difference is I’m strong enough to ‘demand’ it. 

If you really cared and wanted the best for me then why would you lie about any of it? Most of all why would you try to manipulate me into not feeling the way I do because you see it differently?

Just more questions without answers….

Leaves us all with a million questions but no answers. Some of us like to learn from our interactions with others to better ourselves. Maybe I can learn something I don’t know that is how we grow. You may prefer to avoid confrontation but you have to learn to have the hard conversations for healthy relationships. You have to be able to communicate the good, the bad and the ugly even when it’s scary as hell. 
I am not perfect at this but I’m a work in progress, try to learn from my good and bad experiences and how to better handle things in the future. 

Honest transparent communication should be the foundation of any new relationship regardless of if it’s romantic, sexual, or platonic.