The concept of subtle Dominance involves the ability to influence the way someone behaves or thinks without demand. It’s about presenting a presence of authority, control and/or power without pressure through body language, communication, and decision making. It can be used as a form of manipulation or power exchange as well as to guide and groom others in a nurturing and productive way. The idea of subtle Dominance will indeed be viewed as subjective depending on the dynamic involved.
I discovered the definition of subtle Dominance while researching different styles of Domination. Quite to my surprise, subtle Dominance does exist and is expressed by people who choose to Dominate in ways that might be deemed difficult to analyze. *Especially, in the early stages of becoming acquainted with a submissive who has a desire to serve. In the beginning of my journey as a Dominant, I imagined that Dominance meant asserting authority or influence in a way that was demanding, direct, and self-centered. I thought it meant having a mean streak, (which I do possess), and a destained dislike towards men (I plead the fifth).
During the process of my evolution and engagement with individuals in the BDSM community, I learned to embraced the essence of my Devine Feminine Energy. I am Domina Reigns and I identify as a soft Domme. Welcome to my world of subtle Dominance.