Active submission means you make your submission available to your Dominant. Being present and being open for submission takes practice, and it will look different in every dynamic. The environment must be set to welcome power exchange where openings for submission happen, and the Dominant feels invited to assert control at any point. When you need clarification on a task, offer active, open-ended suggestions for future service. Dominance and submission cannot live in a vacuum. You have to actively demonstrate that you enjoy your chosen role and offer your partner opportunities to be a part of that exchange with you.
True Dominance is subtle…
A presence that draws you in…
A force that commands without saying one word…
Captivating its devotee from beginning to end.
Domina Reigns
