There have been many times I have been approached by individuals identifying as being submissive; making request to serve me without having a conversation concerning what type of D/s dynamic either one of us desires to experience. I consider this form of approach to be a red flag when there is no interest to engage in thought provoking conversations to determine the level of engagement we, (both), are interested in pursuing.
A submissive should want to know enough about me to determine if he would feel safe, emotionally and/or physically.
To be under consideration, you must be prepared to discuss the following: (1) Experience Level- Understanding each other’s experience levels so that we both feel confident in our respective roles. (2) Boundaries and Limits - I need a clear understanding of your hard/soft limits. (3) Establishing Trust - practicing the four pillars of BDSM (Communication, Honesty, Respect and Trust will be the foundation of building a successful relationship.
I love to engage with individuals who show a sincere interest. Let your approach be a symbolic gesture of your willingness to be vulnerable with me.
Domina