As I evolve, I am becoming more aware of my place in the kink world. My research has assisted me in being able to identify my kink style as Non-Sexual, meaning it is not related to or dependent on sexual activity. I am Empowered and aroused by Active submission, yet my kinks have very little to do with sex…
Anyone who knows me in this community is aware that I desire a more intimate connection that explores power exchange, control, and acts of service. I enjoy D/s dynamics that thrived on discipline and structure without the sexual element , and I enjoy the emotional and mental stimulation of a D/s dynamic when a submissive allows the layers of his mind to be peeled back, revealing his hidden and/or spoken truths. The ability to be vulnerable is appealing to me, and the resistance before surrendering is indeed mentally stimulating to me. I am Empowered when subs block me or deactivate, especially, if I recognize the fear of surrendering would not allow him to trust his desire to release the level of control needed to set him free. No matter what the outcome, there is a great possibility that I will make a profound impact on his life, and at the end of the day that’s all that truly matters.
Kink without sex can be fulfilling in the following ways:
Service submission - is expressed by doing tasks, chores and rituals for the Dominant. The submissive learns discipline and structure without sexual engagement.
Sensory play - involves physical touch, and tension created to awaken sensual feelings that tap into the emotions of both the Dominant and the submissive, which assist in creating a sacred bond.
Control/Protocol - structured rules, behavior, dress codes, posture training are rooted in the power exchange without a sexual purpose.
Impact play with boundaries - spanking and flogging, creating sensations and emotional connections beyond the physical act of sex.
Emotional Dominance/submission - speaking with authority and having the power to encourage and or humiliate.
My desire is to teach you how to separate kink from sex and together we will be empowered to explore intimacy beyond the physical rim.
Domina Reigns