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5 years ago. January 3, 2019 at 7:40 AM

Sometimes journeying into the wilds of Cageland can feel like watching Animal Planet or a National Geographic Wildlife Edition. A combination of majestic (and not so majestic) creatures from across the globe.

Sometimes through chat, blogs, and private messages we can find the animals tearing into each other, sinking their teeth in to devour their next meal. Carefully calculated attacks on the weaker ones can often destroy them and they are never heard from again. Other attacks leave deep scars. 

Today's episode, however, is about those sneaky moves and maneuvers by those who cannot be happy for others. The smoothly (or not so smoothly) calculated moves to encroach upon the territory of another. The poachers. It happens BOTH ways- Doms trying to poach subs and subs trying to poach Doms. 

***Definition of poach 

(Entry 2 of 2)
intransitive verb

1: to encroach upon especially for the purpose of taking something
2: to trespass for the purpose of stealing game

Thank you Merriam-Webster for the definition***

I don't know about you, my friends, but I think this is ridiculous! There is no respect that comes from poaching. It's not something anyone should be proud of. You don't see news articles praising the poachers in the wild, and you certainly won't have your praises sung in Cageland!

In fact, it makes me want to go Little Bunny FooFoo style on you-scoop you up and Bop you on the head! 

Life is already so full of drama, it amazes me that people like to cause extra drama. Why can't we be happy for others? From the time my munchkin was little, (he is 7.5 now) we taught him that even if you lose in a game, be happy for the person who won. No crying or throwing a fit. Be happy for them, afterall, we want people to be happy for us when we win.

The same principle applies here in Cageland. Stop trying to rain on someone else's happy! You may just poke the wrong bear- the one that turns into a "mama bear" and protector. Watch out!

If you are that hungry, I politely suggest you go poach an egg! 

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PappaBear - Thank you for this Sparky! Excellent topic and definitely needed to be said.
5 years ago
Princess Sparkalina​(sub female) - You are welcome. I agree it needes to be said. A conversation with a friend really spurred it into creation because of drama. That people were trying to stir up between her and her Sir. Ooh it boils my blood!
5 years ago
Loulou​(sub female) - Great post and it is the same everywhere isn’t it some people are never satisfied unless they are causing a drama or trying to upset the balance of others . Let 2019 be the year we build everyone up . You talk so wise words x
5 years ago
Princess Sparkalina​(sub female) - Exactly. I am always on a mission to leavw things better than I found them. That includes people....building up and not tearing down.
5 years ago
Bunnie - Something that poachers don’t seem to understand is that many of the reasons their desired person is so desirable, is due to the relationship they’re in. When someone is happy and secure, they’re truly beautiful... however... that doesn’t mean everyone brings out those qualities in that person.
The other thing that I think many tend to forget is... if they do it with you... who’s to say they won’t do it to you. Not the most solid start to a new relationship imo lol.
I have absolutely no respect for poachers. Great blog, Sparkles ✨
5 years ago
Princess Sparkalina​(sub female) - Thanks 🐰. Great points!
5 years ago
Sensual City Girl{ForeverHIS} - Drama, ugghhh!!! Leave it for the movies or the stage. I could never understand why people create or choose to have this in their lives. It’s such a waste of time and energy. There’s so much better things to do than to be stirring up a hornets nest that you can get stung by, and let’s hope your not allergic. I love to read and know people are finding happiness or that they are happy in their current relationships, Sharing the good times and wishing them the best. Respect!! Great blog Sparklina!
5 years ago
Princess Sparkalina​(sub female) - Exactly! Drama is best suited for the stage for the theater! And it's the same people that stir up the drama, that start up that hornet's nest, but do get stung. And they are allergic because heaven only knows how much drama they create about becoming a victim. I always have to sit and shake my head when you realize that they brought the drama on themselves
5 years ago
Sensual City Girl{ForeverHIS} - Agee’s! Yet, they never learn either 🤦🏻‍♀️ We need a virtual smack button. lol
5 years ago
Princess Sparkalina​(sub female) - Yes! 🙈🤦
5 years ago
Fen'Harel​(dom male) - That's my kink though. To claim someone. But 1. I have my prize already and 2. Even an alpha knows not to touch another alphas "property". So to speak
5 years ago
Princess Sparkalina​(sub female) - I said nothing against claiming someone...but by a code ;)
5 years ago
Fen'Harel​(dom male) - hmmm true..
5 years ago
TreasureMe​(sub female){Consumed} - Sparkie!!! Yes! You did it again babe!! *standing ovation* 👏 #PoachersBeGone

Its really sad though. This is exactly why my Sir left cage as soon as we got together. He would rather there not be any unnecessary drama in our relationship because of the lack of respect ppl have and the "misery loves company" factor. Thanks for this post sparkly one! It's been so necessary ❤ *hugs*
5 years ago
Princess Sparkalina​(sub female) - You are so kind. I just am speaking my heart. Tired of seeing my friends having issues because of things like this.
Your Sir is smart, although we need more intelligent people to stand up to all the crap. Ya know?
5 years ago
TreasureMe​(sub female){Consumed} - I completely agree. But my guy is stubborn and head strong especially about that. When it comes to me he takes no chances. I'm just glad he's supportive of my desire to stay. Nobody and their drama will drive me away from the community I call home. This is my cage family and most families fight and have drama. Its just the way of things. Gotta take the good with the bad and thank God for the blessings and the lessons. 💗
5 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - Yes Sparkalina, Stand Up, Stand Together, Side by Side to protect the good in the Community and show those others, we stand strong together, United!
5 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - What an amazing post Sparkalina... Unfortunate Topic, but so true and I am happy you said it. I for one, have a heart that grows and my mouth smiles when I read or hear of someone else's happiness... It makes me happy!

Those who's hearts shrink, and their teeth come out when see/hear of such happiness? Well they just need to be called out and shut down., With a hammer!!!

Thanks so much for posting 🤗❤️🤗
Not so much for the Little Bunny FooFoo song now stuck in my head 🤭🤣🤭
5 years ago

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