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1 month ago. March 20, 2024 at 4:32 PM

What does a good girl look like? How do you define being a good girl.? 

  A recent series of messages,  I was asked if I was being a good girl.  

My answer,  well duhhhhh....🤣

 

The person didn't believe me,  said they know me too well... hmmmm

 

It got me thinking,  my definition of being a good girl,  and their definition of being a good girl..... well they may just be very- different.  

 

So again,  how do YOU define good girl?

 

 

creidsinn - For me, being a good girl is being to to myself.

In a dynamic, being a good girl is being/doing as my dominants wants me to be/do.
1 month ago
bigolebubba​(dom male) - I think you're a great girl
1 month ago
TreasureMe​(sub female){Belonging} - I think being a good girl will vary based on each stage, experience, situation or dynamic you're in. If you so happen to not be in a dynamic with a partner, being a good girl would be defined by you. Maybe you're completing goals, being productive, feeling accomplished in your requirements to sustain yourself in your day to day life.

But if you're in a dynamic and completing your tasks that you're Dominant has set, following rules...hell, even calling your safeword when needed can all be indicative of being a good girl in my opinion. Who will we be if we're not trust worthy individuals that use our voices to create necessary boundaries for our well being and those of our partners? If you're doing that, you deserve all the praise.
1 month ago
Jack in the box -
When I have to change the sheets again 😏
1 month ago
Sweet Ginger​(sub female){} - I agree w/TM everyone will have their own interpretation...I think a "Good girl" probably is doing things a bad girl does w/just her man.
1 month ago

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