subtle thoughts

You say you want someone 100% passive.

So you want a doormat? Someone who will agree to whatever you want? You don’t understand that submission is an active choice. That makes it all the more sweeter because while the sub is fully capable of saying no but says yes because they choose to. They have agency. Then you know you are worthy of their submission and only then.

Try reading a book on power exchange.

Try attending a class. 

Education is sexy af.