2 weeks ago. Wednesday, January 28, 2026 at 12:23 AM
Beware the “self-taught” dominant.
He learned about kink from “trial and error”.
He likes to “learn on the job”.
He learned from an uncle.
He didn’t read books. He doesn’t go to community classes or discussions or demonstrations. He doesn’t ever learn anything new.
But he’s been living the lifestyle for years. He’s never had a problem… that he knows of. Surely that is proof enough he is safe.
And he will talk down to you as his submissive to demonstrate his dominance. To prove ir. And to test you.
Do not be the guinea pig. Or do. But do so with eyes wide open.