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Understanding me.

I am me, I am growing, I am learning. I love and I hold close. I have opened myself and let the blood pool on the floor, I have let myself know who I am. I am a servant/slave. I am not powerless I am priceless.
4 years ago. March 12, 2020 at 3:47 AM

I put this up in the forum, but not as much foot traffic there   


A question(s) for Doms
 
Why do so many Doms (there seems to many on here) want their subs to do tasks in the home naked ? What does that exactly do for you? Why do they want to be in control of her panties, and if she should be wearing them? I just wonder if these Doms are in this more for the sexual side.

Doms do you want your sub to be trained by a different Dom before they are yours? To me that seems odd because wouldn’t the couple want to Learn these things together. One dom could teach a certain way but when she has her Dom it’s not what he wants. Example Trainer says it’s best to always call your Dom Sir and greet him at the door naked and sit on the floor. So she looks for her Dom and he could be wonderful but he’s not telling her to do these things, so she compares his to the trainer

I’m all for protectors, and mentors. Ones that basically help weed out the players. Make sure she doesn’t go for one that is only out for his needs. I’ve been very lucky in that area. I was protected almost from the start.

Mestre​(dom male) - I do it to get her comfortable in her own skin, to teach her to not to be self conscious of her body. I agree the couple should learn the dynamic of Master and slave/sub together. I've mentored subs because her Master loved her to much to teach her to understand pain and how it can become intwined into pleasure, her Master was a sadist. That's as basic as I can explain without using names and a long drawn out explanation.
4 years ago
Litlegrl​(sub female){Dragon11} - If I may add to this, even though I'm a sub.
The going around my house naked, or not wearing panties, makes me feel more aware of everything. I have to watch what I do in front of windows, if going with no panties I need to watch how I sit. It makes me more conscious of what I do. Though also agree that the vulnerability is mixed in as well.
As for training by another Dom, I think that each Dom should make the sub aware of his wants and needs. Take the time to be sure she understands how to pose, greet him and other Doms, etc.
4 years ago

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