List 3 things about yourself most people dont know.
1 - I once held the world record for the sega game frogger
2 - I have a fear of deep water
3 - Ive always felt using a plate or bowl larger than what you need is being wasteful
Because I still want to bite Erin
(dont judge me, I cant help it)
"click the link" meant making sure the gate was shut.
A "mouse" was only a rodent.
"wallpaper" was only something people on drugs could properly install on your walls.
"tik tok" went the clock.
Getting "likes" meant cards from other students on valentines day.
When I sent something to "the cloud", I got busted for illegal possession of explosives. 🤭
"roaming" meant without a map.
"google" was some weird caricature named Barney from way back . . . Strange eyes if I remember right.
A "router" was a tool I was first introduced to in middle school woodshop class.
"subscribe" was something I asked people to do so I could get my commission from the magazine company I worked for (what a racket that was!).
"cookies" was like, yes please 😃 - certainly never expected they might one day track and profile me.
"voicemail" was a message on my machine.
An "app" or application, was something I dreaded.
A "brick" was something we built shelters with, not $700 paper weights. (im saving up to see how many junk cell phones it will take to build a shed).
"ghosting" someone meant 10 to 12 if you got caught.
A "tablet" was paper and a "laptop" was something girlfriends sat on.
And
"face time" meant . . . well 😏
#bowedheadtribe
"we're just friends, I swear"
"Its only you babe, no one else"
"I had to work late tonight, im sorry"
"the check's in the mail"
"I'll be there at 8 O'clock"
"I'll pay you back Thursday when I get paid"
"oh my god, last night was amazing!"
"me? Only 3"
"oh shit, I left my wallet/purse at home"
"no, its not you - its me"
"I dont know what you're talking about"
"I figured you wouldnt mind"
"I'll call you tomorrow"
"he/she is better than you"
poison ivy
I have something in my eye . . .
The lovely Ms Poppet posted recently about the frequency of scenes, etc, and it brought me back to my ponderance of this subject - something that has always intrigued me. So I thought I would share my blatherings . . .
What causes some people to obtain sexual gratification from experiencing pain?
(I dont attach a label to myself, Dom/sub/switch, etc - but I can say this, ive been on both sides of the rope.)
I was talking recently with a dear friend and explaining how the "heightening of desire" rises, along with tollerance - or should I say vice-versa.
If im not "in the mood" and someone were to strike me with a _______, I would say "ouch, that hurt, stop it - cant you see im trying to change this flat tire?" If however, I AM in the mood, I would say "do that again while I change this flat tire".
What happens in the brain?
If said person were to continue to strike me while I wasnt in the mood, could they cause the brain switch to flip? I know the reverse is possible - "in the mood" and seemingly without cause, slip out of it.
What is the driving factor that dictates this?
How often does your Dom/Domme hit the right level of desired pain? And in the right way, in the right place/s - at the right time?
How do you feel beforehand? After?
If it goes well, or doesnt.
Could a person be conditioned to enjoy a different type of pain than their normal desires?
could a person be conditioned to like pain when they previously didnt? (I dont think the reverse is possible)
There are those who enjoy a little bit of pain once in awhile, and there are those who take things a bit further - and there are those, the giving and/or recieving is a requirement to function at all.
There have been many times in my life where someone would come up to me and say "omg, what did you do? Youre bleeding" - and I was completely unaware, didnt feel it when it happened - or at least to the extent that it did. How much more does something hurt simply because you saw it?
I watched a documentary about the "nocebo effect" - perceived pain that wasnt actually there. Fascinating stuff. What the human mind does with pain.
Anyway, like I said - blatherings
Open for discussion, should anyone be
"in the mood" 😏
I've decided, your blood tastes better than mine