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4 years ago. August 25, 2019 at 10:07 PM

"He's the perfect man" she said "except that damn kink!"

The other day I was talking to a new friend, told her I had a passion for photography - models and fashion specifically.  I was considering getting back into it. She says "ya know, when we 1st met, if you asked me to model for you I would have said hell no!, but now that I know you - sure, i'd model for you, you're a nice guy".

It got me thinking - looking back - I have been with some rather attractive women, but only after they got to know me. Now, im pretty sure you'll never see my face on the cover of GQ, but I wouldnt consider myself ugly either.

In my online search for "her", (on this site and others) - it has been difficult to find someone to even hold a decent conversation with. I read repeatedly about how rude some men are - "insta- Dom" as one person put it - expecting obedience and she doesnt even know you. Profiles that say "if your just looking for gratification, keep moving".

I myself, am polite, respectful, and have a genuine desire to get to know her - I mean, thats what its supposed to be about, right? A connection of the heart, but you both happen to be kinky? 😏. (For those not just searching for a playmate)

I dont know, im losing my direction with this rant - I guess what im saying is . . . . How can one find that perfect match, kinky soulmate - in this world of greener grass with a quick click on the "next" botton? 

Thecharmedmuse​(switch female){My Wildman} - First step: stop looking. Stop searching. At least stop looking outside of yourself. Instead of focusing on finding her... focus on who you want to be.
I wrote a blog entry that kind of illustrated this idea once. Instead of writing about what my ideal Dom would be like, I envisioned, instead, the only acceptable collar for my neck. It was a bit of an internal journey.
4 years ago
Jack in the box - Duly noted Muse, thank you
4 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - "He"s the perfect man, and mmmmm yes, that kink, that fucking awesome kink" 😈💜😈
2 years ago
Jack in the box -
Aawww. 😚🤗⚘
2 years ago

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