"He's the perfect man" she said "except that damn kink!"
The other day I was talking to a new friend, told her I had a passion for photography - models and fashion specifically. I was considering getting back into it. She says "ya know, when we 1st met, if you asked me to model for you I would have said hell no!, but now that I know you - sure, i'd model for you, you're a nice guy".
It got me thinking - looking back - I have been with some rather attractive women, but only after they got to know me. Now, im pretty sure you'll never see my face on the cover of GQ, but I wouldnt consider myself ugly either.
In my online search for "her", (on this site and others) - it has been difficult to find someone to even hold a decent conversation with. I read repeatedly about how rude some men are - "insta- Dom" as one person put it - expecting obedience and she doesnt even know you. Profiles that say "if your just looking for gratification, keep moving".
I myself, am polite, respectful, and have a genuine desire to get to know her - I mean, thats what its supposed to be about, right? A connection of the heart, but you both happen to be kinky? ?. (For those not just searching for a playmate)
I dont know, im losing my direction with this rant - I guess what im saying is . . . . How can one find that perfect match, kinky soulmate - in this world of greener grass with a quick click on the "next" botton?
