2 years ago. November 27, 2021 at 1:48 PM
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A Cloud(sub female){Owned}
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I understand this concept as I have come across it in my study of pornographic form; however, the video seems to simplify men's sexual stimulation. Please, correct me if I am wrong; but I feel there are many men who require mental and emotional connection for extensive arousal. Yes, there is conditioning but what prescribes those associations of the emotional/intellectual kind? This is a BDSM site, right?
2 years ago
Jack in the box
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I think it may be a chicken/egg sort of menu, to be honest Ms Betty.
With regards to kink - I must digress 😏
Generalizing of course, but the male is more genetically prone to being aroused visually. There are exceptions both ways, yes.
I can explain my own 'engine' - I see the physical first -my mind fires rapidly and creates a like/love/dislike, etc on what I see - fractions of seconds.
Speaking "out in the real world".
Her body will attract me first. (Being completely frank). It is the personality that draws in or repels.
With regards to kink - I must digress 😏
Generalizing of course, but the male is more genetically prone to being aroused visually. There are exceptions both ways, yes.
I can explain my own 'engine' - I see the physical first -my mind fires rapidly and creates a like/love/dislike, etc on what I see - fractions of seconds.
Speaking "out in the real world".
Her body will attract me first. (Being completely frank). It is the personality that draws in or repels.
2 years ago
S D
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Men are certainly visually oriented..however the sexiest girl in the room is not always the prettiest girl in the room...that's just me personally, but there are definitely men who will agree with me.
2 years ago
Jack in the box
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I completely agree SD, yes. There-in ly's the definition "beauty is in the eye of the beholder".
This particular subject has been a perplexing one for me all my life.
There are a plethora (love that word, lol) of sub-folders (no pun) in regards to "attraction" - male/female - human behavior. You have cultures where a woman is scorned if she shows any skin what so ever - and other cultures where you have nude beaches.
I just came across that video and thought id share - open discussion .
Thank you for joining 👍
I hope you are having a good Saturday. ☕ ☺
I completely agree SD, yes. There-in ly's the definition "beauty is in the eye of the beholder".
This particular subject has been a perplexing one for me all my life.
There are a plethora (love that word, lol) of sub-folders (no pun) in regards to "attraction" - male/female - human behavior. You have cultures where a woman is scorned if she shows any skin what so ever - and other cultures where you have nude beaches.
I just came across that video and thought id share - open discussion .
Thank you for joining 👍
I hope you are having a good Saturday. ☕ ☺
2 years ago
A Cloud(sub female){Owned}
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It's hard for me to empathise with that perspective. I'm all about the intellect and personality. The imagery or live person (sounds like I am talking about cattle 🤣) needs an association that stimulates my mind. It's about the aura that I interpret. Very specific about my porn, and I often gravitate toward female directed or FF/F stuff. I like good BDSM as well, but it should be well crafted.
2 years ago
Jack in the box
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Hey now, come on - cattle are people too. 😏
Like he says in the video "its hard for many women to understand this".
Dont get me wrong (caffeine is kicking in) - I am not diminishing the importance of intellectual and emotional connection, au con·traire - merely bringing to light what I wonder may be at times "over-looked" (see what I did there? 😏)
In this online world that is very much abated, I would think - yes?
You have to get a 'feel' for someone rather than a feel of someone
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Hey now, come on - cattle are people too. 😏
Like he says in the video "its hard for many women to understand this".
Dont get me wrong (caffeine is kicking in) - I am not diminishing the importance of intellectual and emotional connection, au con·traire - merely bringing to light what I wonder may be at times "over-looked" (see what I did there? 😏)
In this online world that is very much abated, I would think - yes?
You have to get a 'feel' for someone rather than a feel of someone
😂
2 years ago
A Cloud(sub female){Owned}
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Twice you did it actually - see?!
Is that a rhetorical question? (I had to look up abated). Well, there's a difference between the visual and physical presence. The visual is easy on here (refer to Figure 15 - Kink Calendar and Blog Post 4 - SCG gifs). It's touch and physical presence that is...... Sucky!
Is that a rhetorical question? (I had to look up abated). Well, there's a difference between the visual and physical presence. The visual is easy on here (refer to Figure 15 - Kink Calendar and Blog Post 4 - SCG gifs). It's touch and physical presence that is...... Sucky!
2 years ago
Blondie(sub female){Collared}
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Good video! It gets one thinking about the primal yin and yang of the human race.
We females can and have used this knowledge against men since the dawn of time. We buy products and lacy pretties to accomplish our goals simply because we know deep down how men react to it.
Thank you for the thought provoking blog!
We females can and have used this knowledge against men since the dawn of time. We buy products and lacy pretties to accomplish our goals simply because we know deep down how men react to it.
Thank you for the thought provoking blog!
2 years ago
Jack in the box
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I could be easily lured off a cliff by a set of black garters 😍
Power indeed 👍
I dare not dabble into the religious aspects of proper or improper - and so, I shan't - but . . .
Human nature.
So glad you joined Ms Blondie, thank you ☺⚘
Happy Saturday. ☕
I could be easily lured off a cliff by a set of black garters 😍
Power indeed 👍
I dare not dabble into the religious aspects of proper or improper - and so, I shan't - but . . .
Human nature.
So glad you joined Ms Blondie, thank you ☺⚘
Happy Saturday. ☕
2 years ago
Satindragon{N/A}
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Hummm… as Blondie said we women have used this knowledge since the dawn of time. But hey I like a little eye candy myself. A nice pair of wrangles and cowboy boots. Or melt my heat in dress pants, button up shirt, with the sleeves rolled up and a pair of suspenders. Damn!!
2 years ago
ButterfliesAndCuffs(sub female)
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Eh I disagree with the premise that men’s visual responses versus women’s is natural versus socially constructed.
This study showed that when you actually look at how the brain responds to sexually stimulating visual material there isn’t much difference between men’s and women’s brains.
https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/universal-desire-men-and-women-respond-identically-to-erotic-images/#
This study showed that when you actually look at how the brain responds to sexually stimulating visual material there isn’t much difference between men’s and women’s brains.
https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/universal-desire-men-and-women-respond-identically-to-erotic-images/#
2 years ago
Sweet Ginger(sub female){⚓ }
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Most women, of course, not all, it takes more than a handsome face. Not to say this doesn't apply to some men as well..it's just more how most women are wired. A good man, sexy voice, treats me well...is worth more then a Brad Pitt any day..just my two cents.
2 years ago
aliljaded(sub female)
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I am so turned on by a man's hands. It's definitely a fetish. But I rarely bring it up. It's the first thing I notice on a man. I think women can be turned on by the visual as well. But, as he stated not a fraction of as much as a man is. Great piece, thank you for sharing it.
2 years ago
Jack in the box
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You are very welcome Ms Jade, and likewise - thank you for sharing you ☺⚘
You are very welcome Ms Jade, and likewise - thank you for sharing you ☺⚘
2 years ago