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Angel Wings​(sub female) - I think not having a safe word can be dangerous. Yes, there's a small percentage that feels it's not needed,but still dangerous to cross that type of communication off the table. I've never have had to use my safe word,but happy to know it's there for me when and if needed.

Jack in the box -
Thank you for sharing your thoughts Ms Angel, dangerous indeed, yes. I suppose thats the appeal for some.
I hope you are having a wonderful day 🙂 ⚘️

Cozubia​(dom male){She’s Mine} - That’s an interesting place to be in, and one I wouldn’t want to be. I feel like it’s better to have it and not need it, than to need it and not have it. And hell, my own boundaries are too tame to really give that type of thrill seeker anything more than a chuckle and a story to tell her friends. “You think THAT’S bad? Let me tell you about this one guy…”

Jack in the box -
Lol, thank you for weighing in my friend 🙂👍🏻
How have you been?

Sweet Ginger​(sub female){⚓ } - I have been contacted by so called dums, not doms , their profile states they're looking for a submissive with no boundaries or safe words..those individuals are blocked!
I do feel within a D/s relationship as the two learn, grown and trust each other..a dominant can gentle push against those boundaries..if the submissive isn't comfortable or ready she most definitely should use her safe word.

Jack in the box -
I agree Ms Ginger, yes 👍🏻
Thank you so much for participating on my blog.
I rarely post kink related (and often depressing) so I thought I would go outside my norm and actually follow the rules 🙂
I hope you are having a blessed day pretty girl 😘 ⚘️

Sweet Ginger​(sub female){⚓ } - Aww..thankz Jack, wishing you a wonderful day as well. 🌹

lostinlingerie​(sub female) - I have heard of subs saying they have "never used a safeword" or "don't need one" but I could never put myself in that boat. Or play with a Dom who thinks safewords aren't necessary. I have too many health issues - seizures for example - to not put my safety first.

Jack in the box -
I completely agree Ms L, thank you for sharing 🙂⚘️

sexycurves​(switch female) - before i came here, before i knew how to get into this community, in vanilla life - a boundary was crossed but i didn't realise it was a boundary because nothing had been discussed. anyway, it had been discussed months ago (and forgotten over time) and then it happened that once but that was without discussion.

since i've been here i've learned about safewords and consent - and the thought of having no safeword scares me, but equally i can understand the appeal of no safeword. i don't think it's safe for anybody to have no safeword - where there is no safeword, the responsibility would, like you say, fall to the dom (a heavy one) - to read the partner and the situation and remember their own boundaries. it's unfair and risky, potentially dangerous for all involved if there's no safeword to use.

i think in a long term relationship where the partners can read each other so well that a safeword isn't necessary is probably something rare.

Jack in the box -
Yes - It could be something as simple as a spasm or kink in a muscle, or careless knot pinching - not necessarily rough or dangerous play, that would require stopping.
Thank you for sharing Ms S 🙂 ⚘️

T slave​(sub female){Owned} - Hmm, I would say having a safe word and never having to use it would be better than not having one and getting into the situation that requires one! I say limits can be tested but would never enter play without a safe word.

Jack in the box -
Always a pleasure to hear from you Ms T, thank you 🙂
I hope the sun is shining brightly for you ⚘️

T slave​(sub female){Owned} - Lol we enjoyed a snowy day today but we also enjoyed a warm house and lots of cuddles. Thank you for you well wishes, you are always so kind!