I was watching a video yesterday (for research purposes 😏) This girl was spanking another girl with a leather paddle. Pretty hot, right? Well the thing is, the girl being paddled was smiling and/or giggling almost the whole time - Sometimes at the girl, sometimes at the camera. Now I know nervous laughter is a thing - But what made the video un-fun (I mean, not suited for my research) was that the girl seemed impervious to pain.
It wasnt like that "play spanking" you see either, the girl with the paddle was "beating" her ass hard.
After a while I said to my screen "well at least PRETEND it hurts ffs!" Lol. (she eventually did)
It seems curious to me, even though our human bodies are basically the same - blood, muscles, veins, nerves . . . How vast the spectrum can be of "reaction"
I had one girl (smartass little bitch) (god I miss her 😏) I would take the hairbrush to her behind - hard and fast - when I stopped she would say "when are you going to start?"
And another girl, start crying in pain when I raised my hand to start, lol "Wtf? I havent even hit you yet??"
*Sidebar here - im not one to try and teach anything to anyone - there are far more qualified individuals here that do a fine job at that - but know this going in to your first session/s young Doms/Dommes, peoples pain thresholds are different, and their reactions to pain are different. Go sloooooow!
ok, where were we? Oh yes - so after I cleaned up from my research I started thinking about this - what governs our ability, or lack there-of - to handle pain? 🤔 Is it the constitution of our bodies? Or is it the mind? Is it both?
I know this subject has been studied by many people, but ive never seen a real, satisfactory conclusion. Theory mostly.
"Shut up Pavlov! Just shut up!"
In a "typical" situation - "oww! That hurts!" And one would do what is necessary to stop the cause and see if attention is needed to the hurt area.
Butt ☝️
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Good morning peeps! 👋🙂
