I cannot begin to express my frustration with fraud and exploitation of male subs. I realize that it is an issue that can affect all, regardless of role or gender, but nearly every male submissive I've met has been victimized, or at least has some experience with a prospective Domme that attempted to defraud them.
Why are sub males a more vulnerable to such activity?
1. There is a hugely disproportionate amount of male submissives readily eager for a dominant female partner than there are females looking for subs.
2. The professional industry has created unrealistic expectations of what Femdom women want and what real FLR relationships look like.
3. Social stigma makes male subs more vulnerable and sensitive to "outing". This creates conditions for them to be prime targets for blackmail.
I find the victimization of subs to be a particularly egregious and despicable act but I can do little to change this. I share these personal opinions in the hopes that knowledge will be power. A healthy D/s dynamic requires mutual trust. Subs and slaves have rights; to privacy, to trust and to protect themselves. Know your risks, demand respect and protect yourself. You are entitled to it.
