This is a message for companies/business that make collars that only fit females...AKA almost all of them...
YOU ALL SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELVES!
This writing is me at my breaking point. I know a lot of people will read this and think "But they make collars in all sizes"...yes, sizes for women. If you can find a company that makes a collar in an XL, you are still only getting a 20 inch collar. Many men need 21-24 inches. Try to find that...Anywhere! If you do, it is custom made at double the cost. Even with my fit and healthy subs, I have to punch holes extra holes in them. How would that feel if it was you? A collaring is supposed to be special. Not your Domme making modifications on the fly so it fucking fits.
I am tired of looking my subs in the face and saying "I'd love to collar you but I can't until you lose some weight". My first subs collar was one I made him from a belt and hardware I picked up at my local hardware store. I told another sub that we could get a custom eternity collar, but we can't. They deserved better. It is hard enough to be a male sub...
Are bigger subs less deserving? How much worse is it for them knowing they are too big for a collar? Isn't our community about inclusion and acceptance? If you are a collared submissive or a Dom/me that has a collared submissive, check with your manufacturer as to if they offer collars over 20 inches. Ask them to offer on option for bigger people, ask them why their collars are designed to fit 80% of women and 20% of men. Ask them...
