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A blog of the opinions and perspective of a lifestyle Domme including thoughts, discussion, and experience. Intended to be thought provoking, enlightening, and educational, with focus on healthy dynamics, pratical applications and a realism not found in professional resources.
5 years ago. August 23, 2018 at 12:42 PM

For the love of God, Yes! Your profile matters, particularly if you are actively trying to find a partner. 

Here is why,

I read profiles, every word of them. Presumably other women do too, regardless of role. I hope many men do too (though I have noticed that men are far more likely to be dismissive of profiles). Your profile is your first chance to make a first impression. I know I'm not the only one that takes that seriously. Here is what I want to know about people before I connect with them online. Why are you on this site? What are you looking for? I want to know that you are inteligent and capable of effective communication. I want to see the quality of your character and aspects of your personality. I want you to share what you love about yourself and what passions and interests you have in life and kink. If you are not comfortable talking about yourself, talk about what you want. If you are not a good writer or maybe if english is is not your prefered language say that too. At a minimum, your honesty will be appreciated. Putting some real info in your profile may just give you and a potential partner something to talk about and maybe even identify some common interests.

 

To be clear, I'm not suggesting you have to put out all your personal info, or even pics. There is a time and place for that as your dynamic requires. However, there is a difference between smart disclosures and copping out on sharing anything of significance.  

 

If you have a blank, or nearly empty profile that is an indication to me that you are either (A) lazy and don't care about putting in the time or effort (B) naive or ignortant to the importance of it to others (C) you are making a consious decision to be secretive. None of these options are good. As I have said before and in previous posts, I will look at a profile before even responding to messages. If your profile is not worth your time, you are not worth mine. 

Take your profile seriously people...Also, read somone else's before messaging them. 

FunCouple{.-Couple-.} - I have been mentioning this for years.
Even Profile pictures one may put up ..... clear the background debris away first.
Well said Bellona.
5 years ago
shahh - And this is one reason why i ❤ you!
5 years ago
Bellona​(dom female) - Aww, so sweet. *Heart-hands
5 years ago
Jaz13​(sub male) - an empty profile is an immediate red flag to me
5 years ago

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