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5 years ago. August 28, 2019 at 12:49 AM

Disclaimer:  This was inspired by something I read on a profile, not an experience I had  I’ve been a curvy girl all my life.... thank goodness for the BBW lovers  

 

Am I the only one who finds it hilarious even a fat guy says that he’s not interested in “larger ladies”?  The utter hypocrisy!  

 

Everyone has their thing and type, but I just can’t understand how someone who obviously doesn’t take care of their own body thinks it’s ok the judge another. Obviously physical attraction plays a big part or at least a part, and you’re attracted to who you are attracted to... but COME ON!  I just cannot get on board with a dude that calls himself “out of shape” but declines submissives that are plus size. Trust me honey... they are too good for you anyway!

 

/rant

Satindragon​{Not Lookin} - I understand your frustration. I have seen it on more than one profile.
5 years ago
djinni​(dom female)​{smplylaura}Verified Account - I’m not looking for anything besides friends on here.... and honestly if this had been a super fit/active person I wouldn’t have thought anything. But “pot meet kettle”. Lol
5 years ago
Satindragon​{Not Lookin} - I know, double standards
5 years ago
Bunnie - I understand what you’re saying, however I’m wondering... is it judgement? Are fat people not allowed to have standards?

I could understand it being judgemental if he said something like “fat people are gross and I don’t want anything to do with them.” But if it is stated as a simple preference, is that really wrong? Are our preferences only acceptable if they align or make sense with what “should” be?

I don’t say this to be antagonistic... I’m just wondering if perhaps there’s more ways to see this than simply judgement or not.
5 years ago

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