It’s the hot topic of the day... “The Challenge”. And the OP states that residents of The Cage have come out with pitchforks to attack him. And while he can do what he wants with his submissive (however detrimental it seems to me), I take offense with suggesting that others do the same.
First let’s pull this out of an online environment.... how would this same thing be received in a real world munch or dungeon environment? We all know the answer to that. He’d be humiliated and run out of there on a rail. Dude you are challenging Dominants. Even those I would consider soft or gentle Doms have ego. Pride in their care and upkeep in their property. Even if there are issues in a dynamic, it’s rare for one to expose them publicly. For me this seems like the online equivalent of running a train on your submissive. If that’s your thing... do it... don't suggest others to do the same. Your kink it’s yours...we don’t care, unless it seems unhealthy or potentially damaging, and it does.
So you have this day of free communication. And now no one gives a shit. She receives no messages, no wooing, no compliments.... how does this leave her feeling mentally? Now her self esteem is in the toilet and no amount of you reassuring her will help. You’ve broken your goddam sub doing something unnecessary. Instead of just letting her be a person and chat normally, you’ve set her up to fail. The trolls here don’t read profiles, do you think that they read blogs? They will message her regardless of the day, Teach her to recognize the difference and to handle things herself. It’s a huge ego boost for a sub to decimate am online troll. Believe me when I say.,. There are NO genuine Dominants waiting in the wings to woo someone else’s submissive... trolls yes, Dominants no.
Ne careful what you wish for.....
There are people here that smooth talk like you wouldn’t believe. Charm the pants right off you before you even feel the breeze on your bum. My Master is one if those people, so I’ve seem it in action. Give someone like that a few hours and you’d be a distant memory. And you’ll have no one to blame but yourself.
So if we e brought the pitchforks it’s because that *WE* as a whole care. If something doesn’t seem right, *WE* will speak out about it. If your feelings are hurt or you’re offended, then take a step back and try to figure out why so many people are up in arms about one thing. Especially a group of freak flag waving, accepting of all, awesome folks that exist on The Cage.
PS
Asking what someone does for a living in an open forum is out of line.... mind your business.
