Honey..:: if you can’t just pick up the phone and call him... he’s married or in a relationship. Don’t convince yourself whatever silly ass story he told you was true... it’s NOT. He doesn’t turn his phone off after work because he needs to decompress, he turns it off out of fear you will try to call or he doesn’t want his wife to see messages from you.
If he won’t give you his real name... RUN... he’s hiding something. I’m ok with a grace period, but if a romantic or BDSM dynamic is blossoming, then he should provide you with his full name. If he won’t... he’s hiding something.... probably a wife.
If he’s only messaging you and not calling or video chatting... something is fishy... probably his wife lol
iI most of your communication takes place while he’s at work or in the car,.. he’s attached to someone else.
Start trusting your gut with this skeezy behaviors... I know you feel that something isn’t right. If it looks like a snake and feels like a snake... it likely is a damn snake.
Disclaimer:
I do not care if you cheat, that’s on you. What I do care about is the wreckage you leave on a naive innocent person that you’ve ghosted after making her promises of a future. If you are having relationships outside your marriage make it clear to people from the start instead of destroying someone who was foolish enough to fall for you in the first place.
Also feel free to replace the pronouns and roles to suit.
