Is it okay for my to have a link between real life situations and intimate punishment?
I said something stupid in front of our friends and I really embarrassed my girlfriend (we are both switches) and I apologised for that but she suggested that I should be punished for what I did, at first sight I thought she forgave me and wanted to get intimate
But turns out she was serious, she said that I should get consequences for my actions and she won't forgive me until I accept the punishment.
So I did accept to get punished and she caned me quite alot that day.
After a few days I told her I would do something and forgot and got punished again
And one time after that
I'm kind of okay with that but as I said we are switches and yesterday she said something hurtful to me and she apologised but I suggested that I should get to punish her too
She got angry at me and said that I just want to spank her for intimate reasons not as a real punishment
And I don't, I just think what goes on me should go on her
Am I wrong?