My girlfriend said to me that a sub needs pegging to know his place, a whipping to keep him there, and humiliation to love where he is at.
This probably applies only to me but I liked it and wanted to share
I work at a small book store in my area where the owner is a wealthy 35 y/o Dutch woman who opened a bookstore in Egypt just for fun, most of the months we barely break even or realise small profit/loss
I am Egyptian, 21 y/o and I'm her only employee, from the first day I was attracted to her but didn't act on it for obvious reasons, in the last month she started changing her behaviour with me, mainly she started talking about punishing me when I'm do something wrong.
At the first time I sold a book for less than its price so she got angry and said that I should be punished for that and I started apologising and begging her not to take money out of my salary, at that moment she said " I don't believe I'll do that just take care next time so I don't have to get you on my knees" so English is not my native language nor hers so I assumed this was just an expression for punishment.
After that by two days I did a small mistake and she angrily gave me a spank while standing and telling me that next time this will be more severe, the next time she slapped me and my reaction was thanking her for it and she said "I didn't know this would be your reaction, you're a good boy get back to work"
And the last one was yesterday when I got 10 spanks with a ruler,
I really want to know if this means she's attracted to me or even want a dom/sub situation which I am greatly open to, So if any of you guys have any opinions please tell me.
I am doing a big mistake tomorrow on purpose.
I replied by this in a forum asking about unbelievable situation that happened and I figured why not share it here!
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I have this really unbelievable story which I never told anyone and I'm glad to share it here anonymously
Back when I was 14 I had this really pretty art teacher who was my first ever crush.
So one day of mine who knew about my crush pushed me towards her sobI hit her and we fell on the ground together and the boy who pushed me got expelled for a week
So after that the teacher called me to her office and told me that I have to be punished for what I did and I started telling her that the other boy pushed me and I had nothing to do with it but she insisted that I get punished or she would tell the principal that I threw myself at her.
I begged her not as my father was strict and he would kill me if I got expelled, so she gave me her address and told me to go there after school.
I really understand anyone not believing the next part as it seems like i'm living a fantasy or something.
So I went there after school and after she closed the door she immediately slapped me on the face and ordered me to have my pants down and bend over the table, so I started crying and she came with a brush and started hitting me in the bottom for a really long time long enough for her to take numerous breaks.
Spanking here is really not common or acceptable it's a taboo and should not be done.
After finishing she hugged me and put cream on my bottom and ordered me to leave.
And she treated me normally in class after that.
Weird ha?
I think it's the fifth time or something, I guess we couldn't stand each other 24/7 during quarantine lol.
But I'm surprisingly okay I'm always a mess after we break up.
On the bright side no more punishments on silly stuff like leaving the bathroom seat up!
But I'm sure I will miss her and how she made me a better version of me.
I know I may not make sense but I'm emotionally confused right now.
I used to eat my lips skin excessively when anxious which really hurts, but after she started punishing me for it, I lost the bad habit.
I used to have a problem with meeting deadlines in work, she started giving me a caning - which is my least favourite punishment - whenever I don't meet a deadline and now after a couple of punishments I always finish my work early.
I'm confused and sad.
Sorry if I'm not making sense.
After more than 20 days of quarantine, we broke alot of limits like I always refused to try fisting and then we did and it was great, I broke all my high scores in number of strokes by hand, brush, flog and cane (yes we keep score it's weird)
so what's next?
So, after suspending activities for two weeks in my country because of the corona virus, mistress said to me: -
"Well, then I have nothing to do but you"
After that I got a punishment for something I did a week ago but mistress never had the time to punish me for it.
We'll try to distract ourselves from the current situation by some fun.
Stay home and stay safe!
Yesterday I was punished the best punishment I've ever received, mistress was studying with friends and I sent her a nude photo of me as a joke (as I am insecure about my body and looks in general) after that mistress came home early and sat me down and said I will be punished for Distracting her by my nude as the photo made her horny and she couldn't study after that which was very flattering and made me feel pretty and sexy as I am always insecure about my body.
The punishment was not sexual I was punished by spanking, canning, and with a belt for being bad but I loved every second of it and I promised not to repeat this kind of behaviour again.
Although I am not sure I am keeping that promise.
So me and my partner was struggling through our switch relationship for more than a year now until we found what's missing
What was ruining our relationship is both of us trying to have more power over the other
Until we agreed to have a classic dom/sub relationship a month ago and going from there our relationship been great
Everything is smooth and we're both happy and we've worked on communication and realising our limits and deciding on punishment methods and reasons
And it's been great being punished according to some known rules. I intentionally stayed out late without calling last night and you can guess the rest :)
I just wanted to thank all who supported me here throughout the year. Thank you all.
Is it okay for my to have a link between real life situations and intimate punishment?
I said something stupid in front of our friends and I really embarrassed my girlfriend (we are both switches) and I apologised for that but she suggested that I should be punished for what I did, at first sight I thought she forgave me and wanted to get intimate
But turns out she was serious, she said that I should get consequences for my actions and she won't forgive me until I accept the punishment.
So I did accept to get punished and she caned me quite alot that day.
After a few days I told her I would do something and forgot and got punished again
And one time after that
I'm kind of okay with that but as I said we are switches and yesterday she said something hurtful to me and she apologised but I suggested that I should get to punish her too
She got angry at me and said that I just want to spank her for intimate reasons not as a real punishment
And I don't, I just think what goes on me should go on her
Am I wrong?
Is it okay for my to have a link between real life situations and intimate punishment?
I said something stupid in front of our friends and I really embarrassed my girlfriend (we are both switches) and I apologised for that but she suggested that I should be punished for what I did, at first sight I thought she forgave me and wanted to get intimate
But turns out she was serious, she said that I should get consequences for my actions and she won't forgive me until I accept the punishment.
So I did accept to get punished and she caned me quite alot that day.
After a few days I told her I would do something and forgot and got punished again
And one time after that
I'm kind of okay with that but as I said we are switches and yesterday she said something hurtful to me and she apologised but I suggested that I should get to punish her too
She got angry at me and said that I just want to spank her for intimate reasons not as a real punishment
And I don't, I just think what goes on me should go on her
Am I wrong?