6 years ago. Monday, May 27, 2019 at 9:22 AM
I see it often written that new s types should ask other s types for their opinion of the D or M they are interested in. We should also ask for references. I think that's great advice. I don't see it reversed for the other side of the slash though. If it's not happening, it should be.
I'm curious if Dom's/Masters ask s types for references and chat with others about who they are interested in. They could find out if the s type is legit or not, deceitful or brings drama or sweet and fun. Is this happening? ? Even if they hear something negative, they can always get to know them further to form their own opinion. I offer references when I meet someone new, do other subs as well? ?