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Not really a blogger, just sharing what's on my mind. Thank you for stopping by and reading.

I see it often written that new s types should ask other s types for their opinion of the D or M they are interested in. We should also ask for references. I think that's great advice. I don't see it reversed for the other side of the slash though. If it's not happening, it should be.

I'm curious if Dom's/Masters ask s types for references and chat with others about who they are interested in. They could find out if the s type is legit or not, deceitful or brings drama or sweet and fun. Is this happening? ? Even if they hear something negative, they can always get to know them further to form their own opinion. I offer references when I meet someone new, do other subs as well? ?

alawey(sub female){(OWNED BY } - Ame i think this is a good twist. For.just there are Doms and such that maybe better off for some to avoid. The same i thing would go for subs. And again im not saying that any one is evil or bad just that not everyone or everything is the same and will work.

I think when vetting someone no matter the side of the slash. It is in the end up to the ones involved and wether they have done there research into themselves ( as in what they want) and their research it to the other said person and does it match up..

5 years ago

CrimsonPaw - Agreed. ?

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alawey(sub female){(OWNED BY } - Just as i stated in my lastest blog

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CrimsonPaw - It's what inspired me. Btw, skip work and post another. ? I enjoy reading your blogs! ?

5 years ago

TreasureMe{🤍} - I give references if asked by other subs. I have been asked by a Dom or two though, if I know a certain person and so on. Its probably not happening as often all the way around tbh. Great blog Ame ?

5 years ago

CrimsonPaw - Thank you Chica! ? Has a Dom you were interested in ever wanted to talk to previous Dom's of yours? I've only had one ask.

5 years ago

TreasureMe{🤍} - All my previous Doms left cage after we split. It wasn't possible. But no... they've never asked me so they could find out.

5 years ago

CrimsonPaw - Well that's convenient *giggle* lol jkjk ?

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TreasureMe{🤍} - Lmfao! That...or im just so awful they can't handle staying around me haha

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CrimsonPaw - Hahaha!!

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TreasureMe{🤍} - Comment deleted by poster.

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Ingénue{VK} - Smiles. And the web tangles yet more with opinions, cautions and cross fire.. lovely in theory of course. Trickier in practice. Depends on who you ask.

5 years ago

CrimsonPaw - Good point, very true

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alawey(sub female){(OWNED BY } - Thats why u do with those u trust and know. And even with them u take things with a grain of salt

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Ingénue{VK} - Which perhaps rather defeats the object...

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alawey(sub female){(OWNED BY } - No i would rather to hear it personally. And then make my mind up .
I think if you take the grain of salt while listening a n d knowing not everyone is right for everyone and chose one way or another than its on u. And therefore there cant be any " i didnt know" " why did they tell me" yada yada yada

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alawey(sub female){(OWNED BY } - * didnt

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Bunnie - Comment deleted by poster.

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stassia(sub female) - I’ll be your reference! ???

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CrimsonPaw - ?? I'm sure that'll go over great! ? ? #DoubleTrouble ?

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stassia(sub female) - I’d be better off asking a stranger to be mine ???

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CrimsonPaw - STFU!!!?? I'd do great being your reference! Sexy af, gorgeous, smart ass, hilarious....??

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Complete Randomness

References?