Have you ever had your women come to you with a problem or issue she’s having and by the end of the discussion you’re left feeling like you only compounded the problem by helping?
Allow me to unravel the mystery, women do not need a man to solve their problems unless they ask us to. So the next time she comes to you with a concern or problem, listen actively.
And eventually ask “ are you sharing for me to listen or to offer my thoughts” and she will tell you what she needs from you at that time.
Now not every problem or discussion is always met with that response, sometimes it’s clear what she needs and wants. However, In most cases, she wants you to be present with her, to gift her with your attention while unloading her mind and emotions. Do this correctly and she will appreciate you in her very special ways.
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