I believe that before entering in this lifestyle, healing one's traumas is the most important missions you can take on in your life.
BUT if you are trying to get over the wounds of your D/s dynamic/ BF/ or childhood, particularly the limited beliefs that someone has inadvertently programmed into you…
AND you are still in a relationship with the individual who created the original wound …
AND they are still engaging in the same behavior…
THEN the healing won't happen because you're continually being retraumatized.
If this applies to you, the solution is to create boundaries with the offending individual/individuals.
You can’t heal PTSD while you’re still on the battlefield.
Remember,You are the only You God created,. Allow yourself the opportunity for better.
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