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A Rough Start

My thoughts as I start my life as a submissive
5 years ago. January 31, 2019 at 1:59β€―AM

So, I normally try not complain on my blog... But there has been something that just keeps rubbing me the wrong way. And this form of irritation is another submissive from my community.

 

From the first time we met each other, she has never really been all that friendly.

Every time we go to these play parties we all hang out as a group. Her being one of the other submissives in the cirlce of Doms our age. Ever since the first time I've met her, she belittles anything I speak to her about. Even going as far as to try to physically cut me out of the group, standing in front of me trying to push me out of the circle. The girl even proceeds to glaire at me anytime she sees me across the room! For god sakes.

 

But that's not the only time she treats me like this.

 

At our last play party I was showing off my marks that my Daddy had given me to other people at the event. Only because i was given permission and was super excited about getting to share this with others.

 

This particular sub happened to be walking by while I was chatting with a friend.  So me, out of happiness decided to share it with her as well...

Of course as I should have expected, she percideds to act like there is nothing even there to look at. Turning my a this way and that. At this point I'm just pissed and kind of hurt too. 

 

Of course my Daddy comes over and proceeds to tell her to essentially get lost. But I'm still sitting there pouting.

 

I just don't get what her problem is. I've never have done anything to her, nor have I said anything to piss her off. I guess I'm just better off avoiding her all together. But it's getting to the point where I don't really look forward to talking to other subs at the parties anymore.

 

Any ideas to why she may be acting this way towards me? Is there any something I did wrong? I can't keep having this happen if I want to enjoy play parties again... 

T slave​(sub female){Owned} - Thats good advice Phanes, i would definitely confront her. But not with malice but with courtesy and kindness. If she is rude then it will make her the bad guy to the group and i am sure they will back you up. Peace friend.
5 years ago
CrimsonPaw - From what I know about you, I don't think you have intentionally done anything to her at all. You seem to get along with others quite well. Definitely run this by your Dom though, with him knowing all involved he would probably give the best advice. ☺️ Although, I would approach her and ask if you have offended her in any way. My guess would be no. Kudos to Bobo for stepping in. You two are a great match! Don't let this girl take your joy. Stand up for yourself and be the fun and confident woman we know you are! 😊 You got this! 😁
5 years ago
MegaGem​(sub female){Solidbobth} - Thanks Amber 😊 I did end up talking to Bob more about it. We worked out a solution. Definitely lucky to have him as my Dom. Thanks so much for the advice and support 😁
5 years ago
CrimsonPaw - That's great! Keep us updated on how it turns out 😊
5 years ago
Finished​(switch female) - Hmmmm... unless it’s just outright jealousy or resentment for your own happiness with your Dom? Is she unattached? Maybe she’s one of those people who always thinks, β€˜why her and not me?’ And takes her anger out on you? Or some people just cannot be nice to others when their own life sucks in some way. It’s too bad she is ruining these parties for you. Good for you guys to work out these issues so openly and together!! Sound like you and your Dom have lots of fun! 😸
5 years ago
MegaGem​(sub female){Solidbobth} - That's the thing! She has a Dom and is married to him. So there is no reason for her to be this way. The only thing I can think of is that she use to be the center of attention will the group of Doms before I came along. But it's still silly to be so mad about. I just wanted to make some kinky friends my age. But yes, I very lucky to have the Daddy I do. We definitely have a very open and supportive relationship. 😊 I just hope things between this sub and I work out. Got enough drama in the vanilla world πŸ˜‚
5 years ago

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