This blog is coming as kind of a response to another blog written on the Cage. I had alot to think about and say after reading it. Out of respectful to that Dom and not wanting to hijack his post, I'd like to carry on this discussion over here as well.
I actually came to this life style a virgin myself. But I'd like to think I had a purpose of doing so.
Virginity aside, I wanted a partner that could keep me structured and under control. That and to use me in the way I wanted to be used. But the most appealing thing about this lifestyle is the total transparency and trust found in this kind of relationship. Something that is very much lacking in most vanilla relationships of my generation and I was sick of it.
Now I won't lie, coming to this site rather young I did Dom hop a bit and run into a few creeps, but that all changed once i found my perfect fit.
Another plus of being so young on this sight and inexperienced was how amazingly well people tended to take me under their wings. And by doing so I discovered alot more about myself and what BDSM was all about.
I don't think that being young and a virgin is a bad thing when it comes to joining this sight. If anything it was the safest place for me to explore BDSM from a distance.
I don't get how is being virgin and liking BDSM is a bad thing or how it is attracting creeps to the Cage. There are always going to be creeps on any genral sight, Even Facebook. And there are always people on here willing to keep you safe if things get to out of hand. That is one of the many things I love about this communit.
Any way, I do hope that other young people, dispute their sexual experience, continue to join this community. To learn and get to have the joy of exploring their sexuality in the same way as I did.
