Good enough.

Bunnie - I have both a Little aspect and a Middle aspect. It created a lot of havoc and misunderstanding before realising this.
I don’t tend to see it as “picking” or “choosing” anything... I see the whole point of any of this as simply learning about and embracing all the many different aspects of ourselves.

Pandabear​(sub female) - Thank you.

SSG{ENM-TLP} - I personally feel that my little is emotionally around 6 but otherwise around 10-12. Which means that when I emotionally need my daddy, I would cuddle more and be less independent, and during all other times I would be more capable of self-managing and independence, while still being interested in more youthful activities, things that a lot of times is programmed out of us as women like coloring or playing with dolls, having tea parties and watching cartoons. I only use age to help give an idea of what my needs may be.

Pandabear​(sub female) - See that makes total sense! Thank you!

BigBubbles - I'm the same way. No specific ages for me though. Most of the time I'm a little but will behave more like a middle when I'm in a mood. Never let anyone make you feel weird for being yourself and doing what feels comfortable. It's not a law. You can write your own rules. 💜

Pandabear​(sub female) - Thank you!

BigBubbles - Welcome.💜

Little moon​(sub female){Not lookin} - Boops there is no one size fits all and you don't "have" to do anything, whatever fits and works for you is exactly that, tailored to YOU. whoever told you this needs to take a step back and hold their tongue a little, no one has the right to to dictate how or what you do, feel, think or how you should respond. If they want to discuss /debate this send them my way I'll debate it with love and enthusiasm😁👌. And I have repeatedly read that many Littles seen to progress on what's called a sliding scale, as in their ages vary depending on the outside influences. Whatever makes you feel at peace boo just do what feels right and don't listen to negativity.

Pandabear​(sub female) - Thank you so much!