Firecracker Diaries - A combination of stories, random thoughts and an appreciation log of life with Daddy

Fellatio
Cock sucking, giving a blow-job (BJ) or blowing, going down on someone, being face fucked: the act of sucking or licking a penis, or having a penis inserted in the mouth. Once considered a perversion, now a common vanilla option, but also used among BDSMers. A bottom may perform fellatio as an act of submission, or an top may do it to a bottom in some intense way, perhaps including using the teeth -- see cock torture. The word is first recorded in English in 1887 and is clearly derived from the Latin fellare, to suck McDonald; a man who performs the act is a fellator and a woman who does so is a fellatrix. Hygiene precautions should be observed with this activity -- see safer sex.

I just love this definition... and actually I love this term. It sounds so elegant... More so  than the term blow job!

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Face Fucking
Forcing a blow job. 

I would not use those terms... but I'm not sure what my definition would be... what about yours?

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Fantasy Rape
A rape scene played out but with consent and arrangement by both parties.

I think this screen could be a turn on for me... especially with lots of after care. In my head it could be highly traumatic if not done with care... and lots of communication before hand.

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Electricity
Electrical play, electro torture. Using electricity in SM games seems a scary notion to many people but it can easily be made safe provided two simple rules are followed: only use devices powered by low-powered batteries, and certainly no mains-powered appliances; and avoid placing any contacts above the waist (including on hands or arms), because even small currents in the heart or brain can disrupt those organs' own delicate electrical activity with serious consequences. Popular devices include Relaxicisors and TENS machines, designed for muscle and back-pain therapy,and violet wands, which use radio frequency discharge and can be used above the waist provided the face is avoided.

This one is interesting to me. I mean I've used a Tens machine before... on an injury... and over time I loved that damn thing... It felt so good in a hurting type of way. I would love to hear how it has been used in scenes or sessions with any of you... 

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Endorphin
Beta-endorphin. A form of chemical produced naturally by the body that seems to be involved in regulating the perception of pain. The name is derived from 'endo-' meaning internal, and the name of the drug morphine: endorphins are chemically similar to opiates, and one of the factors in opiate addiction is that the body stops producing them in response to the presence of the drug. The detached euphoria sought after and enjoyed by some SM bottoms as a result of heavy pain games may in part derive from the release of endorphins.

My introduction to endorphins were with my first tattoo. Why did I want more the minute it was over, after counting the seconds while it was happening? Then testing my limits with longer tattoos sessions. I never imagined how sex and control could enhance those feelings even more. The addiction to those feelings are real. Wanting to push yourself more and giving up control to your master... is life changing.

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Elastrator
Device, resembling a pair of tongs, used for applying very strong and tight elastic bands, intended for vetinary use in castrating and tail-cropping young animals, but sometimes used as a form of clamp in SM play, especially on nipples (prolonged wearing of such bands should be avoided).

What in the "pinching till it falls off" hell is this torture device? I can't get past that its used for castration and cropping of tails??? How cruel???

Seriously... has anyone actually used one of these??

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Dydo
Piercing passing at right angles through the rim (corona) of the glans penis.

Who has one of these? Or who has been with someone who had one? How does it feel... from the giver and receiver?

Do tell...

Duct Tape
A strong woven adhesive tape available in generous widths of 2" or more and a useful standby for bondage purposes, and especially popular for mummification. A tape known as gaffer's tape is rather weaker but is sometimes used as a substitute.

Never used this during a scene or a session. Not real sure I would want it used!! Wouldn't it hurt? Maybe that's the point... but anyway... what in the ever lovin BDSM is mummification???

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Double Penetration
The act of having two openings filled at once, mouth, anus or vigina. Usually done with three people but toys can be a replacement.

Daddy introduced this to me once in one of or sessions. He has used it on me twice now. He has an a device he uses that attaches to him and adds a dildo to his body... or double penetration for me. Its very enjoyable... but overwhelming at the same time. Its almost as if my body doesn't know what to focus on and it goes into overload. Both times put me into a coma! I'm not sure if I could handle something in my mouth at the same time as my vagina our anus...I would definitely not be giving pleasure from my mouth... it would be just awkward and uneventful! Lol

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Dominatrix
The Latin feminine of the term 'dominator', one who dominates, could just mean a woman who enjoys taking the dominant role but almost always refers specifically to the professional dominatrix who charges for staging scenes where she dominates mainly male clients. The work of these women is rarely classed legally as prostitution because very often genital sex is not involved. Some dominatrixes are renowned for their knowledge and skill at both the psychological and physical aspects of SM techniques and a number have made valuable contributions to the BDSM community.

I have always admired dominatrices. Their stance, their look and the power they have. I think its super sexy. Its not something I would enjoy because submission doesn't turn me on when it comes from someone else... only myself. I could do it... but only for the others persons pleasure... not mine. I like to watch it... but the turn on comes from the power...

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