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Firecracker Diaries - A combination of stories, random thoughts and an appreciation log of life with Daddy

I'm a owned and collared. The journey I have been on with Daddy is amazing...and only gets better! This is my daily entries of what is going on in my head and stories of all the things I’m learning with Daddy!
5 years ago. June 22, 2019 at 2:07 AM

Ugly People...

 


One thing I can’t stand is rudeness. This could be because I was southern raised and the concept is not part of the culture. You’re taught from a young age to show respect and kindness until that person loses the right to your hospitality.

 


Even now with people that I completely dislike...I’m polite...until they make me not be. But never am I rude or hateful just because.

 


I’m dealing with some individuals at work that obviously don’t like me...and this is due to what I believe as their response to being intimidated by me and my ability to what to run my part of the business. These people are in high leadership levels and act like complete assholes because of their titles. They actually enjoy the opportunity to show their dislike for me through rudeness every time they have the opportunity. So how do I handle this...with extreme friendliness...so much so that it’s over kill. I think it’s fueling their fire...

 


All I can do is smile and keep moving forward...but it drives me insane. I will never understand the concept of being mean or rude to someone...just because. It’s not humanly right....

 


Until tomorrow...

Lotus​(sub female) - I can relate. I can’t deal with the pettiness that can happen in a work environment. I also use the approach to kill them with kindness. You vibrate on a higher frequency ?????. Let the haters be the motivators!
5 years ago
Little moon​(sub female)​{Not lookin}Verified Account - If that's all they have going for them it's a truly sad and terrible thing, but it doesn't sound like its working so just keeping doing what you're doing and keep smiling, in the end karma will come back around. I understand what you're saying and I really hope it gets better but if not then at least you know you're the bigger person, you know you're doing the right thing.
5 years ago
HGB​(sub female)​{Scottish M} - Kill them with kindness. Keep spreading that sugar. Your better than stooping to there level.
5 years ago
ADIDAS - I was raised in a southern home and taught southern manners just as you were so I'm completely with you! I also worked higher up in the cooperate world with people that for various reasons just wasn't going to accept me in my position. So I treated them as I would've anyone else, put my head down and worked my lil ass off. I may not have made friends with them but guess what? I earned their respect. That was my goal and well Worth it to me!

Just keep doing what you're doing. Work hard, don't let them get under your shell and see what happens. You'll do great! I have faith in you!!! ?
5 years ago

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