Identity
Who gets to define your identity? You? Or are you being defined by others? Is your identity the subject of their view? Or is it yours?
I struggle with my identity changing year over year. Not that I’m aware of it....but people in my life take notice of how I have changed and either like it or not. I guess there are somethings that change that would be impactful for someone else....but is it really?
I mean ...can you not just be in someone’s life and enjoy them for who they are in that moment? I’m not talking about changing so much that your a different person...but just little things...I used to like blue...now it’s purple. These types of changes should have no bearing on whether you still like me or not....right?
I like my identity. I like that I’m not the same person I was years ago. I like that I still can change my style and my likes...and just because I have changed my shoes doesn’t mean that I’m different on the inside than the person you know...I’m still there....just in a different color!
Until tomorrow...
