Drop - The physical or emotional exhaustion that takes place after a scene. Both tops and bottoms may experience a drop. Crying, feeling sad, and physical shaking are all signs of a drop.
I was experiencing “drop” before I even knew what that was. In the beginning of our relationship I blogged about how I was feeling after Daddy went away. Everything from extreme sadness to physically being sick. I was another sub reading my blogs that explained what was happening to me and how I could work through it. She gave me lots of tips from her personal dealings and pointed me in directions to research. After doing my own research and talking with Daddy about how I was feeling....it really helped me learn how to cope. Even now that Daddy doesn’t go away anymore...I still can deal with drop after certain sessions...but mostly it happens if I am away from him for too long.
How do you cope? What kind of aftercare helps you?
Thoughts