Firecracker Diaries - A combination of stories, random thoughts and an appreciation log of life with Daddy

Bunnie - Yes

Bunnie - “All day every day” is 24/7

alawey​(sub female)​{(OWNED BY } - I look at it this way if you are in the same house ( living together)then your life is 24/7 ( or as you both it full time). Although it's not a kink scene all day every day. For there is work, family, paying bills, and such that is part of what is being lived.

There many be certain rules for "scenes" so to say , as rules foreveryday things. For example ... your daddy may choose your entire outfit for the day or just your aunties, you may still have check ins when your out and bout without him.

Just because a " rule " may not seem kink related. It's still a rule . And it shows respect for your daddy ( in your case) . And just his doing things as he can and sees fit for your best interest.

No what what ppl may say .in my opinion to live the lifestyle . Is the total package and a partnership.

And even though there is spices ( kinks and what not) used in this recipe( relationship) . There is also the spice vanilla within it here and there.
** wording to explain recipe borrowed from a friend**

TheAnt​(dom male) - Fire, I agree with Bunny that it is exactly the same thing. I also think some newbies may think it is NOT like alawey stated but the fact is that life requires bills to be paid and children, pets, etc. I think it differs from a vanilla lifestyle in that protocols and routines as well as scene times may be included.

Dunimos​(dom male) - This idea of 24/7 and its kinkness in a bdsm setting has always baffled me. I think there is no contradiction at all with regular life events and living out a D/s dynamic. For example.
Sure, your not going to act out every sexual aspect of that dynamic but living a Dominant, submissive or whatever the dynamic is can certainly include everyday life events. Perhaps the difference is if one engages in bdsm as a fantasy exploration verses living out your true desires in a healthy way.
Just thoughts.

Dominus eius​(dom male)​{LittleLott} - As someone who lives with (and indeed is married to) their BDSM partner I would definitely agree that 24/7 is an alternative term to living the life full time.

Alaway also highlights a really important point that is probably easy for those who either live apart, or participate remotely, might not realise. When 24/7 you have to allow for the rest of life. Therefore the protocols between you are interwoven into everything else - but also have to occasionally flex. If our daughter need us - maybe she had a nightmare or hurt herself - then that takes priority. Would I punish my sub (or express displeasure) for not completing a task because the dog had been sick and she needed to get him to the vets? No - you work around and with.