Firecracker Diaries - A combination of stories, random thoughts and an appreciation log of life with Daddy

Trav and Vic​(sadist male) - Beautifully put. This is what I have with my Sub. Many struggle to get the balance right, sounds like you have.

rebeltoya​(sub female) - So true just haven't met that dom I can fully trust at all

TreasureMe​(sub female){Belonging} - Well to me, there is a power exchange involved. It requires relinquishing of power to the partner you trust on varying degrees of depth depending on the situation. By no means does this make any submissive weak. But it allows for the strength of letting go to flourish into a beautiful exchange. I always say that a good Dominant allows me the ability to achieve and experience certain things, I couldn't otherwise experience on my own. His trust worthiness and desire to care for and carry my burdens...to hold my power, allows for me to experience "outside the box" type things. So yes, I agree with you. We're strong and powerful. But giving up our power to put it in safety, doesn't make me less strong or powerful. It makes me more so.