A great relationship is about 2 things:
First appreciating the similarities,
and Second,
respecting the differences.
We all deserve to be in spaces....and relationships that make us happy.
Our souls need to be fed...
And we need .... yes NEED to Grow!!!!
We are all worthy of having people in our lives that are kind to us and authentic. People with whom we are loved and nourished.
Before we settle for anything less.. we need to remember that the places we visit and the people we journey with through life should allow us to feel safe, loved and ENOUGH.
The right person will give you attention, affection, love and commitment because they LOVE You.
No relationship is worth it if you are not happy.
Never be reckless with someone else's heart, and dont tolerate anyone who will be reckless with yours.
Standing alone is better than being around someone who does not value you.
You have to learn to get up from the table when you realize that love is no longer being served.
And you should know what you bring to the table ....and dont be afraid when you have to tell someone that you are not afraid to eat alone.
Letting go of someone can be really really hard....but its not as hard as trying to hold onto something that was never real.
When someone treats you well.....its okay to move mountains for them...but if they hurt YOU .....learn to drop those mountains on their head.
The only way to win with a toxic person is to refuse to play with them.
Much discussion about whether the glass is half empty or half full is stupid.....the glass is always refillable....with something or someone else.
Much discussion happens here about people who claim they are dominants while being very young. And yes blah blah we have no business judging one another. Just let me make one point.....if they are home living in mommies basement, they dont have a job...or a car....or pretty much nothing beyond their action figure toys....what perspective will they have with YOUR life. How can they understand your current challenges?
How can you grow or fix things in your life if you are busy helping that other person?
Let me be clear.......Learn to BECOME the priority in your own life. Take care of you first. Let the world worry about itself....take care of your life. Pull your act together. You are responsible for yourself. No one else.
This is a New Year!
New Chances,
New Feelings,
Same Dreams and some new
Fresh starts......
Today be a better person than the one you were yesterday!
Remember .....that...You are amazing!!!!!!!
Happy 2018 may it be a great year for all of us!
