So recently i saw a post somewhere asking about the best ways to determiine pain tolerance.
And it was asked......Why not say ...just hit me as hard as you are okay with?
Tolerance. the capacity to endure pain or hardship.
We all have seen high school players practicing in august way before school is scheduled to start. And for the first number of weeks they are really sore. But little by little their bodies get used to being hit.
And so a sub that is spanked frequently will build their tolerance after a while and be able to accept harder strikes for longer amounts of time. In simple terms they get used to being hit.
And the same it true for pain. If frequent work is done the body will build up its tolerance and the sub or slave will be able to accept and process heavier pains for longer periods of time.
Now i have lost count of the number of self proclaimed Dominants who have talked openly about that they love to whip a sub. and thats all they talk about is whip.....whip this and whip that ......
Just as pain tolerance builds over time....each and every play date should be structured to build tolerance as well
Warm-up. prepare for physical exertion or a performance by exercising gently beforehand.
In BDSM play warm up is important. Start lightly with the lightest implememt and gradually increase your force. Then go to the next implement. And coverage is very important as well....work on lining up your stricks so they land next to each other...side by side. Getting good coverage will help your sub or slave get turned on and they will be able to enjoy the play time.
If your intent is for the spanking to be an erotic spanking then you need to develop your technique so that the playtime will be enjoyable. Hitting the same two spots on the butt cheek will draw your partners attention to how annoying that is instead of helping them cum and/or hit sub space.
And yes self spanking is totally boring but a sub can find an implement and can work on their technique so that they can increase their tolerace on their own. So because you currently dont have a play partner it does not mean that you cannot imporove your tolerance and having amazing orgasms.