?Thoughts, suggestions, past experiences welcomed here please ??
As I have crossed into the dark side (vanilla dating apps ?)..I am beginning to think about when and how to appropriately discuss my enjoyment of D/s and Bdsm. In my last vanilla relationship (7 years long). I never built the courage to address my needs in that area. I never felt fulfilled sexually and ultimately the lack of pleasure in that part of our relationship was a huge role in our decision to separate.
For future relationships, how do I bring this up and when?! This thought alone is giving me anxiety. I feel it’s probably best to acknowledge this prior to any sexual interaction. How do you address it without making things awkward? Or killing the mood. I don’t mean to come off as immature but I honestly don’t know where to begin here!
thoughts?!!????