Hello Sexy, Beautiful, and Helpful Sluts, Daddy’s, and ________ (insert your kinky name of choice here)...
In my last post I was calling out to you all for some help regarding starting a conversation about kink and Bdsm with men in the vanilla world of whom I am interested in dating.
So, lucky me, I found a relatively normal seeming human on one of those apps. 👍🏻...and we are meeting tonight 😯..
allow me to back track slightly, I want to say THANK YOU to the people who reached out and posted responses and advice/suggestions for how to address the topic of kink with someone new. I listened and valued all responses. The ideas that worked best for my personality were to send a private message to the person and explain briefly that I’m interested and also have a strong attraction to a Dominant and Submissive style of relationship, myself being the submissive...I asked him if he was familiar with this type of relationship.
His response, no....he is NOT familiar...but YES he is open to trying it with me. 🎉🎉
I’m considering this response a huge success as I would have NEVER put myself out on this limb prior to joining this site OR hearing suggestions from people here!
Now that we are meeting up, I am getting anxious! I really don’t want to leave anything off the table because I feel like the longer you wait to talk about what you like the more awkward it becomes. But I also really don’t want him to think I’m some kind of sexual deviant or something.
Also how does a newbie sub “train” a vanilla-ish man to become a Daddy Dom...hmmm..? Any of you out there help led your Significant other to the world of D/s?
I want him to know I’m serious about this, but also that there are times to laugh about what is being done or what is happening. I want to sound strong in my interests, but some of them I’m not even sure of yet. He says that he’s open to explore all of this with me, so maybe take an approach where we are learning and experimenting together?
thoughts??
