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7 years ago. February 23, 2017 at 9:33 PM

Due to an incident that occurred my Dom had agreed to turn tables and be refused intercourse and orgasm.

So the last two days of my visit there was no sex and then I went home and he couldn't relieve himself either.  Three days after I came home his balls were aching and so I played a little, asking if he thought I should continue to refuse him an orgasm or if he felt I should release him from his word.

And then I came up with a plan, I told him he should catch the train to my house and I would suck his cock dry, but first he must complete certain tasks.

The tasks were quite simple but required some thought and imagination.

The first part I requested him to bring milk and bacon, easy tasks to complete.

I also required a baseball cap, he collects them and its the thing I associate with him most, he never is without a cap on.  I wanted something that when we were apart had a strong visual connection and attachment to him, to comfort me.  I also required a jumper of his that smelt of him and had pull cords as I have a habit of provoking him when I'm with him by pulling the hoodie drawstring tight, which normally leads to a warning glare and if I carry on, a spanking.

I also wanted a love letter from him telling me why he likes to be with me.  This I thought would be his most difficult task, he's not openly emotional and rarely talks about his feelings.  

And lastly, I wanted him to use his imagination to find something around the home he could create a flogger with that was not something traditionally used, ie: he couldn't use a wooden spoon or belt for example.

So he stayed up all night, got the first train to see me and arrived at the station at 7am.

The letter was beautiful and really moved me, it was only short but perfectly worded. 

He made me wear a blindfold and flogged me with his created flogger that was still a mystery to me until he made me use my soft safe word for the first time ever, which had been so hard for me to use.  After, he held me and stroked my hair telling me how proud he was of me for finally finding the courage to use my safe word.

And then I kept my end of the deal and sucked his cock until I had drained every last drop, swallowing as much as I could.  

So, things are back to normal now and I've no leverage left for a little of the power, but I really enjoyed today even though I know my place and enjoy being his sub.

We decided it was so much fun though and both want to do similar to one another again, maybe tasks like telling the other they must buy something at a hardware store within a certain budget that could be used unconventionaly as a collar/cuffs/plug/flogger etc...or pet store/grocery store etc

Maybe that it could be bought and used as it comes or a task that it must be adapted to be used.

A fun task to add items to our play kit and to give our imagination and devious minds a work out.

Any ideas welcome :)

Link​(sub female){No collar} - I love being tasked and the fact your Dom would allow you the same
6 years ago

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