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Ramblings of a broken mind

Strange name for a blog right? Its's funny, that line has been with me for years. Always being told how I need to be fixed. I need to get help. I need to be better. My question is why? Why do I need to be like anyone other than myself?
2 months ago. September 21, 2024 at 3:39 AM

It’s been a while since I have been here at the Cage. So much has happened… Life has been a whirlwind in a traditional sense. Good job, new home, new state, new life. What more could you ask for? It seems the answer is a lot. It’s been well over a year since I have been able to embrace my submissive nature. A year and a half ago I needed to be strong and be the change I needed. Now with the dust settled I feel empty inside. Almost incomplete. How do you fix something like that. 

CapnRick​(dom male)Verified member - I'm probably preaching to the choir, but seeking out a new Dominant might be your positive step forward...Even if the first few are not an exact match, being in the chase, or being chased!, might help with those empty feelings....
2 months ago
DelightfullyDominant​(dom male) - What would fill your void? Feeling a bit empty when things have settled down after a flight or fight is not uncommon. Make sure you recuperate and heal from what appears to be a survival/traumatic situation that has now eased up. Move carefully, purposefully, and slowly. If needed, find yourself (domme/sub/switch/…doesn’t matter), and your center. Try to live true to who you are and find joys in life even if they are not bdsm oriented. An idle mind is the devil’s playground, as they say.
2 months ago
TreasureMe​(sub female){Consumed} - Firstly, I would like to say congratulations on your move and new job. I pray everything is as you wish it to be in those areas.

As far as feelings of emptiness, I think that's only found within. I personally believe in God and within that, having God fill my cup so I can give to others from the excess. But if you don't believe as I do, I would suggest finding more of yourself. Loving yourself in a way you never have. I don't think that any one person can fill that kind of void. I think for yours and your future Dominant's sake, you should achieve wholeness before pursuit. It'll only be healthier and help you avoid pain and bad experiences along your journey. I hope this helps!

Good luck and many blessings to you ❤️
2 months ago

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