This is a first blog for me.
I have been here for quite some time, however, I am more of a lurker than a poster. I very much enjoy some of the blogs and follow the adventures of a few people/couples.
Although the opinions of some say that if you are not an active part of the community.....(ie, active poster and commenter or blogger) , then you are not really part of the community. This is something I disagree with. There are many that like to read and learn. It's not a requirement to blog and post. Some of us like to keep to themselves and enjoy more of a private life.
That's more of my style. Until now.
I currently have my ass parked firmly in a lawn chair. I am enjoying some quiet time and relaxing in the sun. It's a beautiful Sunday and the weather is perfect. I've been pondering this blog for quite some time.
This blog is not about me at all. It's more of a thank you to everyone here. It's a thank you to the cage and the wonderful people that come here and share their adventures and their stories.
Through the cage and the people here, I was able to meet someone. This someone has become my life. My soulmate, my love.
She has encouraged me to reach my goals and become the person I want to be. She has made me a better person and given me hope and love and support when I needed it.
I am a Dom. I am only a Dom for one reason. That reason is because I have someone that allows me to be me. To be strong and confident. To encourage me when I fail (yes, doms do fail). To help me push the limits of my own abilities. There is a difference between Doms and subs. The difference is very small. One leads, one follows. They both learn. The leader needs the strength, support and trust of the follower and the follower needs the guidance, support and trust of the leader. They are nothing without each other.
This bond takes time. It takes commitment. It takes communication. Not just in the beginning. It's a constant, evolving thing. It takes work. Endless work. Its absolutely worth every second to be able to look at your partner and know. To be able to see it. Without words. To just feel it and know.
Without the knowledge and the guidance of everyone here, your triumphs and mistakes, I would be the same struggling person i was a few years ago. I thank each and every one of you for your part in my learning!
Pumpkin, I am yours. You are mine. It's you and me against the world. Forever.
I love you!
And.....I like your bum!!
