So just one of the things that I’ve learned on this site is that Dom’s want us subs to give them unlimited trust. Ultimate trust that is.
well that is great most subs want to trust a Dom with no limits. But the reality of this, thing called trust is it must be earned by an outstanding Dom. One that is confident in himself and patient. One that can be strong enough for himself and the sub. One that does not think that this lifestyle is about power. And that can be in control just not a control freak. Yes there’s a difference. Subs need to know that the Dom won’t hurt them or tell their secrets. They need to know they won’t be abandoned or tossed out like yesterday’s trash. They need to feel safe even when they are being disciplined. 🤓🤓
Sub’ are giving the ultimate gift which is 100% of themselves. They are willing to put their Dom’s needs before theirs. But with this kind of trust come responsibility.
Is that dom responsible enough to handle that amount of trust.
Have they earned the right for that trust? This is something every sub should ask themselves before giving that amount of trust.
one of my biggest questions is how can you give this amount of power to someone you’ve never physically meet. You’ve never Been able to look them in their eyes to see their soul.
so with this blog I am sure a lot of Dom’s are not going to like me. But that is ok because that means they are not meant for me. My right Dom will be strong enough to break my walls down come inside and help me build them back up. He will never abandon me or my soul. He will never forsake my trust once he has earned it.
I still have faith he is alive😁
