Rules
For those subs who have lived their entire life growing up free and wild. Like a growing rose that's never been clipped they are not easy. Especially the bedtime one. Especially when one has never had a bedtime getting into a routine is hard. But necessary for one with ADHD and not on their meds. And living with other people that have no idea about the lifestyle. This rule is hard for anyone with ADHD because they already don't have a sense of time. So that adds to the problem for any sub in this lifestyle to get use to. It is a necessary one for that sub due to ADHD due to they need plenty of sleep and it's very good for them. "Everyone actually to have the proper amount of sleep is good". But add rules to someone who's never had rules even growing up as a child this makes things difficult for them to follow.
Now the punishment for not following the rules is also hard because they've never had consequences for anything in their entire life that adds to the spectrum. They now have to think and not live spontaneously.
Change is a good thing and no change in one's life is easy. Not for a Dom or a sub. But change is a good thing for all of us.
